I am writing in a cafe when I see an HB at the near-by intersection, shoulder-length dyed brown hair, wearing a cute striped shirt, dress and purse. With my coffee in hand, I exit the cafe and walk down the street for a bit before running up to her, tagging her on the shoulder and beginning a conversation. She compliments me on my bravery, and we chat for a bit about her job, hometown, and a music festival that we've both attended nearby her hometown. She asks me what I'm doing in the city, and I respond that I'm going to meet up with a friend and check out the local college library, with her teasing me that I'm also here to meet girls, to which I laughingly respond "That too". Asking for her number, the girl admits she is in a relationship, and I tell her I hope the interaction has made her feel sexy and appreciated regardless, to which she responds warmly before we part ways.



I think a lot of guys avoid doing write-ups about their blow outs because of some sort of pride thing. I rarely get blow-outs (not being arrogant - just true), but that's not to say that they don't happen or that they're not a part of the game. With this post I thought I'd write about a blow out I had today to illustrate that a failed CA can be fun and a good reference experience, showing dudes struggling with AA that the worst-case scenarios they're playing out in their heads are totally irrational. In one of his Men's Room videos, Cajun talked about the Wayne Gretzky quote "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" in relation to game, and I think he has a really good point. Best case scenario with an approach you get a lay, sex buddy or girlfriend, and worst case you make a hot girl feel validated. If you're a guy who truly loves women, there is nothing to lose and everything to gain, with each approach bringing you that much closer to your goal.

Why I put "blowout" in quotation marks, but point taken

The quotes are definitely a good start. More enlightened POV than a lot of posters on here. We have to start changing the language all together though.

As a side-note, I really dug Cajun starting out. He came to PU from the perspective of having experience as an actor.

I'll rep Cajun Spice any chance I can get. He's solid as all hell.

He opened my eyes on Keys to the VIP. That a guy with very little natural physical gifts can be successful with subtext, confidence and the right attitude.

I tried his "You're adorable, I'm adopting you as my new little sister.. we'll climb trees and drink Kool-Aid" routine before. Girls kept saying it was creepy. Though, I still number closed. I think it was 'creepy' because it was incongruent and they knew I was interested in the girl.

That's funny, I never saw Cajun as a particularly ugly guy - no male model but I definitely always perceived him as having a better natural aesthetic than a lot of other PUAs (e.g. Neil Strauss, RSD Owen). Still, a great takeaway, it is your core belief systems more than anything that ultimately help you to pull the really high quality girls.

and I guess that's a case of ends justifying the means. Creepy or not you still ended up getting the close, which is ultimately what counts.

it is your core belief systems more than anything that ultimately help you to pull the really high quality girls.

and I guess that's a case of ends justifying the means. Creepy or not you still ended up getting the close, which is ultimately what counts.

I am writing in a cafe when I see an HB at the near-by intersection, shoulder-length dyed brown hair, wearing a cute striped shirt, dress and purse. With my coffee in hand, I exit the cafe and walk down the street for a bit before running up to her, tagging her on the shoulder and beginning a conversation. She compliments me on my bravery, and we chat for a bit about her job, hometown, and a music festival that we've both attended nearby her hometown. She asks me what I'm doing in the city, and I respond that I'm going to meet up with a friend and check out the local college library, with her teasing me that I'm also here to meet girls, to which I laughingly respond "That too". Asking for her number, the girl admits she is in a relationship, and I tell her I hope the interaction has made her feel sexy and appreciated regardless, to which she responds warmly before we part ways.



I think a lot of guys avoid doing write-ups about their blow outs because of some sort of pride thing. I rarely get blow-outs (not being arrogant - just true), but that's not to say that they don't happen or that they're not a part of the game. With this post I thought I'd write about a blow out I had today to illustrate that a failed CA can be fun and a good reference experience, showing dudes struggling with AA that the worst-case scenarios they're playing out in their heads are totally irrational. In one of his Men's Room videos, Cajun talked about the Wayne Gretzky quote "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" in relation to game, and I think he has a really good point. Best case scenario with an approach you get a lay, sex buddy or girlfriend, and worst case you make a hot girl feel validated. If you're a guy who truly loves women, there is nothing to lose and everything to gain, with each approach bringing you that much closer to your goal.

If you're a guy who truly loves women, there is nothing to lose and everything to gain, with each approach bringing you that much closer to your goal.