I wouldn't class myself as the forum's greatest. That's like being the smartest retard
I think you have done great with the self analysis. Girls will for sure be repelled with your current mindset
I think your solution is a little self explanatory and common sense. You don't feel entitled to a woman. This is a very weak mindset.
I recommend doing some inner game stuff and perhaps try to understand that girls are just girls and there is always someone else that is bored fucking them. Try to convince yourself that girls want you and every thing they do is a way to get into your pants. If she is giving you her time and conversation then just assume it's on and it's all down do you to NOT fuck it up and feel needy from within. I find a lot of people like you that they tend to sabotage the dynamic when there is a eventually a girl on a plate for you. Don't let this happen to you.
Also. Outer game. Fake it till you make it. Frame things that she wants you and your verbal game will accordingly. "You are just agreeing with me just to get in my pants bla bla" this is cocky and funny. Old school I know but it has a good frame that you are not needy. This is otherwise known as form of game. Try some routines if you have to so you don't self sabotage your game "are you gonna text me?
"Summary:
• learn the game basics and apply
• assume every girl is attracted to you.
• work on your inner game
• work on your outer game
• Prevent self Sabotage
• go find some wings