Awesome. This is my very first journal entry
.Have been with a wing at a small party at a nearby university. Its a big social network, they dont do any advertising, even I, from another town met 6 ppl I know.
First Set two girls I opened with "do u even know anything about romance studies"? Both girls were into me, one very drunk, however not cute, wing took me aside "bro, I hope u only do that to socialize withe the ppl" and isolated me from them
.The first notable set was a group of five girls, I open with "its a fucking romance studies party but not a single person from this study course is here". It was obvious they dont really belong to that party so I started to talk about the ppl, that most are nerds, in a cute way, but look at them, with those hair and clothes etc. (really, could have been a warhammer convention except for the chicks
). This is a very good approach in my experience u can read a lot by just looking at ppl and connect with them very fast as often its obvious what they think. little cute girl (target) throws a small gummi scorpion into my beer. From todays view its even more gross as this must have been part of the last years halloween decoration .It was a gesture of dominance, of course, I keep calm and fun. I take the scorpion out of my beer, we have a bit shittalk about that (always whole group), and I throw that little fucker into her beer. It was kind of suprising and impressive group was like "dafuq, no way he hit her beer with that". For countering the dominance in this way I got full respect and value from the group, we belong to that group from that moment (not talking about hook point).
Target takes the scorpion and tries to put it into my beer again, in a fun way. I must admit, she was small and very fast and nearly got me two times
. However today I think I should have utilized it more as she came very close and in a playful way.She was very high energy, switching her dialog partner very fast (some guys I know came as they saw an opportunity to get to know some girls
so the group was bigger right now). Normally I counter that by giving her attention and take it away before she does to get the upper hand. But I decided to interrupt her pattern completely. I looked into her eyes and in a very serious tone I said "Do you have ADHS?". I could immediately feel how whole group loses sanity "did u... just ask me... if I have adhs??" - "yes, indeed". She immediately started to qualify herself, more a mixture of very carefully insulting me and qualifying herself. I saw that she was getting pissed and released the tension by coming close to her and try to hug "oh come to me u cute girl, u are awesome" she resists first, second time we hug, but she is not into it. Group talk moves on. This is kind of end of set as in fact I didnt move an with the girl, we talked a bit with each other and the group, after some minutes I go to the toilet, when I come back they are gone.What I should have done imHo is to continue with some cold reading stuff and then isolate her or go dancing.
Second notable Set was a mixed group, two girls one guy, I open with "omg, you guys have the most colorful clothes of all ppl here" (which was true, of course, blue girl, red haired girl with red clothes and guy with hat and.. awww I dont really remember him, but he was wearing a hat). I realized this was not cleary enough stated as a fun and friendly fact and obviously I interrupted the guy hitting on the girls, more or less... I qualify myself a bit with this topic and reinforce my friendly attitude, giving them some value and the girls warm up a bit, what makes the guy disappear..
. Two female friends join the group we talk about what is our major, I always let girls guess, never getting old this routine. They were shocked that I was able to guess their major precisely, one girl biology, other girl biochemestry (my guess for her, btw, was: not quite biology, but more chemistry). Biology is very much into me, I found her only just not fuckable.. maybe just an excuse on the way back from the party I thought I should just have hit on her. It's sad, didn't really did anything with this set, I talked to some guys and they went home.After that we continued to have an awesome time with two fancy party glasses
. Awesome image, room of nerds and intellectuals and... us .Then we went home.
TL;DR: Having a great time, got attraction of some girls, but not pushing anything forward, went home alone.
This was good:
* Solid opening and hook
* Solid shit talk, might be partly induced by alcohol, however not too much alcohol that it would hinder my game
Better from now on:
* Not pushing the flirts forward, sticking at a safe base after some minutes, no risk taking, no isolating making it sexual etc. I think it is fear of rejection in a subtle way.
Specific task:
Will be out this night, again. I will go for faster escalation, pushing it forward at all cost, not caring about losing a set or getting rejected in any way.