Hey guys.
I've got a little personal question regarding a girl I know. So I'll give you the background of my situation.
I'm 18, I'm a 1st year at university (freshmen US), anyways Molly, Molly is pretty hot I'd says she's a 8/10, she is 21 and has been traveling since 19 before starting university. Molly is pretty frigid from what I've seen, of course I have no idea about what she did traveling but we closely share a social circle at university and she's never hooked up with or even kissed a guy for the whole year.
I'm pretty sure Molly has a few 'Beta orbiters', she also has lots of guy friends who are aren't very hot, but she keeps them around as friends. Assuming LJBFs.
Now I've always thought she's pretty hot, the first time we met it was on a night out, I flirted with her for a bit and tried my luck escalating for a kiss but didn't get anywhere, so I bounced.
After that I never paid much attention to her as I was in the process of getting two FWBs (both worked out - still got one). Fast forward a few months one of my FWbs drops off and I'm looking for a second. So hey I started flirting with Olive again, it went pretty well. Kino - thigh rubbing, hair/head rubbing, hugs etc and strong eye fucking from both of us.
However when I went in to kiss her, she pulled away, this happened 3 times in one night. She would dance close with me, I got bored and bounced and tried hitting on others, she went looking for me, found me and put her scarf around me and pulled my face in close but wouldn't go to kiss me.
So I cut contact. I 'soft nexted' her.
Here is the text convo.
3 days later she starts texting me
(we have a trip coming up)
Her: hey you wanna go splits on this fare with me?
Me : sure
her: heya cool
Her: we should probably do the upgrade to pay for more luggage
Me: yep Ill organize it, though I may not be around so you can carry it round for me
Her: huhuhu fuck you!
Her: wont you need xyz
Me: nah got my zuyzz
Her: Cool
Her; we'll figure something out
Me: we can do it after
Her: ok
Me: you on campus? - im not here to chat shit, I want to schedule a meet
Her: not now
Her:
Her:what are you doing?
Me: studying
Her: wow - not I send 2 messages for every 3 she sends (or even a few less this DHVs)
Her:what are you doing
Me: finance
Her: yeah I have that too
Me: wanna prep with me sometime this week? - We have exams coming up
Her: yes I need all the help i can get
Her : also in economics too - Possible red flag is she trying to use me as a tutor?
Me: cool text me on (number) ill set something up - taking lead
Her: I dont have a phone
Her: ill be around all friday - logistics
Me: friday at 3 - assert my frame on logistics
Her:ok
---- few hours go by
her: hows it going
?me: headed out to the gym, btw its $10/hour for help - as I noted above in about my tutor fear, I'm trying to play it off in an 'alpha manner' with this joke
her : haha fuck off
her: you have blahblahblah anyways?
me : no
her : ok
I want to say in advance thanks for any replies, as this is a long post.
I am essentially asking if I seem like a beta orbiter or if I genuinely have a shot with this girl, she has hot friends so I don't mind having her as a friend, but of course ideally I'll be fucking her by next week.