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| Author: | firecoke [ Mon Feb 23, 2015 4:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | My Pickup Journal |
This journal will detail my journey through pickup. I have now logged close to 50 hours of field experience. Provide feedback. |
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| Author: | firecoke [ Mon Feb 23, 2015 4:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My Pickup Journal |
VENUE: Mall GOAL: Phone close in 1 min CANDIDATE: Girl walking by OUTCOME: Fail Me: Hey, do you know where the blah, blah is. Candidate: Yeah, OMG I just walked by it, but I can't remember. Me: I'm so disappointed. Candidate: (Looking a bit apologetic) I'm sorry. Me: What you from? Candidate: I'm from here. Me: What you do? Candidate: I work at JCPenny. (She's now running her hand through her hair and giving me an assessing look - She knows at this point that this is a pick up attempt) Me: (She's intrigued; throw in some credibility) Yeah, I am meeting a friend at blah blah store. She is going to help me with blah, blah. Candidate: Cool! Me: (Think of continuing the conversation somehow - 1 second goes by; 3 seconds; nothing springs to min - and the candidate walks away). QUESTION: Thinking about it bit more, my options at this point were limited. I couldn't dive back into the JCPenny topic bc it would seem unnatural. I could have continue talking about myself, but that seems like a waste. Any experts out there no what to do? |
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| Author: | Unfazed [ Tue Feb 24, 2015 5:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My Pickup Journal |
The rapid fire question approach doesn't work because it's weird. Instead of this: You: question Her: short answer You: another question Her: short answer Which makes the girl feel weird because this vein of conversation IS weird. No one talks like this except socially uncalibrated people... try this: You: question Her: short answer You: related to her answer with a statement, opinion, or story Her: related back to your statement, opinion, or story with a statement, opinion, or story of her own Repeat ^ to find commonalities Break rapport to spark attraction Example: You: Hey, do you know where blah blah is Her: blah blah blah You: I'm so disappointed Her: blah blah blah ^ This part is good so far, especially if the I'm so disappointed part was playful then: You: Where you from? Her: Here You: (depending on where here is) Oh word! Do you know blah blah blah it's my favorite place here! Her: yeah i love that place! or No, I haven't heard of it You: (if the first one) Yeah, they have the most amazing blah blah blah (if the second one) Wait, you're from here and you haven't gone there? *playful disapproving look* Cmon... ADD VALUE to the conversation, instead of repeatedly asking her to add value Hope this helps! |
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