Quote: So 2 weeks ago i decided to go daygame at Grand Central in new york city but with a different approach. I decided to give the girls MY number instead of me taking theirs.
I've daygamed PLENTY of times and never got laid. I've gotten 2 dates but never went further. But I decided to approach and approached two times and both times I gave my number out.
A week later i got a random text saying that she's free this valentines day and she wants to hang out. Long story short she met me at my home, we went out to eat and came back and enjoyed a night of reading the bible..(wink wink).
I'm going to start giving my number out instead. It takes away the anxiety of having to think of when to text them or what to say in the first text. Also when she messages you your the one who's being seeked and if she flakes then you can revert it back to her and aske why did she even message you if she was going to flake.
Any experience?
There's good and bad to this:
You'll get fewer numbers. I've had women say straight up that tell me that they don't take phone numbers. For some women, it can almost be an insult to hint that they should be doing the chasing. Some just won't bother.
On the other hand...
Women actually calling/texting you means that you waste less time with uninterested women. Those who do call are almost GUARANTEED to be interested in you, and you waste far less time messaging back and forth or trying to establish whether or not they're giviing you a green light or amber. If they make first contact with you, YOU have the power and reverses the traditional gender roles where she is competing for your attention.
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