Hi,

I need some help on 2 dates.

First one is tonight.
First going for some drinks and after that cinema.
I don't know if I'm in the friendzone, but when I ask her out she responds quickly.
We text a lot but I miss some romance and flirting...

2nd date is this friday.
She is single and me to.
Her boyfriend cheated on her and my girl lied to me.
we are going to a christmas fair.

I can always open the conversation. But I can't twist it intp romance. I hope you guy's can help me out.

Greetings!

Are you looking to get laid or make friends?

Sounds like you've known 'date 1' for a while now, but have not made a move on her yet.

The drinks are a good idea, but the cinema sucks. No closeness, touching, sexy conversation.

Oh well, it is what it is. Salvage it by taking her back home for more drinks, and a cozy movie at home, where you CAN have touching and, sexy conversation. . If she will go, she is open for you to make a move. MAKE ONE!

As far as your text problems, fuck romance, get sexual.
Tell her all the dirty thing you are going to do to her after your date.

'Date 2'

Segway the conversation into sex, use innuendos, and kino, Ask her funnest sexual encounter, go from there.

I'm always afraid on making a move... from dating persons I don't know to even persons I know already!

I'm not aiming for sex's with this one. She's not that girl that will go from 0 to 100.
Plus she has to work tomorrow and her sister is home. So we can't do it... I just want to kiss this one tonight.
But I don't have the material to turn this date into ... a kiss.

I'm not aiming for sex's with this one. She's not that girl that will go from 0 to 100.

Well this is good for me. We haven't seen each other for like 2 years.
So a lot has changend. Like I said she is and I'm single. Plus it's weekend...

I will use your tips for sure on Friday.

Elaborate please.

Chief (another mod here) has a pretty decent blueprint for first dates...

http://chiefpua.com/first-date/

You can check that out as well.

I dated a gogo (club dancer) / model. 1 year and 3 months to be exactly. And yes she was a "10"
The date -> She will probably ask, like every girl I meet now... how things went (breakup).
They all start the conversation like this. I tell them I'm over it and want to move on.

Why are you mentioning dating a go-go dancer in the first few dates?

Well the thing is. I will tell you the whole story . Where do I start....

When I was 6 I saw my parents split up and it effected me a lot. I saw my dad cry like a child and he told me don't ever cheat on a lady because you see what happens... and that always effected as a person.

When I was 17 a girl added me true my msn profile. I tough it was a joke at first...
But there she was a beautiful 16 year old girl. Who had no experience just like me.
But she said "on your profile I readed you where a nice guy" who you can talk to. She asked for help to get a guy and eventually she dated me and we became friends at first.
But after that we had a relationship for 4 years and after that 2 years a sexual relationship.
So we where there 6 years together.
After the broke up I became a DJ to focus me on some other things in life.

I met some girls I got into bed with. But I had a good relationship with them (fuck buddy's)
Because I always told them from the start I didn't want a relationship.
They didn't care, because they wanted the same as me .

So after the broke up 3 years went bye.
And I was DJ'ing in Spain. There where some girls really beautiful girls.
Some of them are models who do modeling and dancing like a gogo dancer.

And one of them spoke to me.
But I never wanted that kinda girl from the start + she was Asian...
And I'm like in my mind... "She can get so much better... and how will this end"

So at a club we spoke. We had a good conversation... and I ended up yeah I'm going downstairs looking for some girls. Nice to talk to you....

So I was dancing. Like always having a good time. And a guy wanted her but she didn't want him.
So I came to help her and asked to dance with her. After that we spoke outside and I ended up walking to her hotel room which was on the same floor as mine.
She lied that she couldn't get into her room. So I said you can sleep at my place.
We ended up kissing in bed and when the time came she stopped me and told me. I rather wait for sexs.
I was "ok"

Next day the news was already buzzing she told everyone that I had sexs with her.
That they told me.
And people told her I ended up telling everyone I had sexs with her.
After 2 days I told her... This why in the blue hell would you end up telling that.
And she told me no you told them... I told her people just don't want us to make out...
So we ended again in bed.
We kissed and she wanted sexs now. But I said no.... you have to wait .
At first I wanted sexs, and the second time she wanted this.
So I turned things around and told her NO. I told her let slow things down...
Plus there where guy's in my room sleeping with me.. That would be so bad for our first time.

I said when we are in Belgium... let's hook up.
Second day in Belgium we dated and it ended in sex directly.
It was a nice time. But it ended really, really bed .

So now I'm looking for someone new.
I hope I don't ZzZ you guy's to dead with this story.

Greetings!

Right, but why are you telling GIRLS/YOUR DATES about the go-go dancer?

Don't mention other girls on your first few dates!

Agreed