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| Author: | OhMyItsRai [ Sat Dec 13, 2014 2:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | First time |
So I've read a decent amount about sarging and watched a view videos so I know a decent amount and as I get on the public city bus I notice a fairly attractive woman who I figure is in her late twenties/early thirties sitting alone. Conveniently there is a seat also right next to her thats perpendicular to her direction so I decide to sit there as it gives me the opportunity to talk to her while not sitting directly with her as there were open seats everywhere. *Should I have just sat right next to her or is this too aggressive given the situation or did I play it right?* At first I asked her some basic logical boring questions which I immediately realize is not the right way to go about it and then a few minutes later I decided to use the 5 question game Style goes over in his routine book. I said everything right but made it obvious I was trying to trick her with the last 2 questions and didn't sell it quite right but nonetheless it was a good ice breaker. Then to my surprise as I look away she decided to ask me my name and a few more questions and we begin to talk for a bit. Turns out she was 36 and I'm 19 so I guess age doesn't really matter. Throughout the conversation there were a few IOI's but nothing too notable. When we get to our destination I asked her "Can I have your # so we can continue conversing?" right on the bus before it stopped. She hesitates and then says yes and says her #. *I'm guessing the LMR to the # close was probably because she was married or has a boyfriend as she has kids and/or the social pressure of the bus maybe? Everything else went well and I'm really certain she was attracted to me.* We get off the bus and I walk beside her so our shoulders were grazing each other and show her my phone and say I didn't catch all of it as I have 7/10 of her digits. Much to my surprise she orients her body so her breast are touching my shoulderish area now and I get the rest of her #. *Im guessing her grazing her breasts against me(we did both have a lot of clothes on as it was 30 degrees out) was a solid kino IOI? Or does it mean nothing much?* Not even sure if I said anything to conclude or just walked away. *Should I just say bye or something like we should meet again sometime soon?* I texted her "Hey its Justin. Want to grab lunch after your appointment?" *I already see a couple things wrong with the text but what did I do wrong and how could I fix it? Btw she was going for a doctors appointment as she told me* She never replied so should I try calling her or just move on to the next one? Im guessing the latter. Also is this report too lengthy or just right? I havn't checked out too many other reports yet so I'm not really familiar with what the standard report consists of. On the actual report itself any and all help is appreciated |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Sat Dec 13, 2014 5:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: First time |
You did way way better than me, I totally pussied out on my first approach back in the day Quote: *Should I have just sat right next to her or is this too aggressive given the situation or did I play it right?*
You played it right IMO.Quote: *I'm guessing the LMR to the # close was probably because she was married or has a boyfriend as she has kids and/or the social pressure of the bus maybe? Everything else went well and I'm really certain she was attracted to me.*
Don't assume that. LMR to a # close can be pretty common. Doesn't matter what the reasons were, what matters is you got the #.Quote: *Im guessing her grazing her breasts against me(we did both have a lot of clothes on as it was 30 degrees out) was a solid kino IOI? Or does it mean nothing much?*
Assume it was a solid kino IOI even if it wasn't (it probably was).Quote: I texted her "Hey its Justin. Want to grab lunch after your appointment?"
It's fine. You aren't going to snap up every girl whose # you obtain.*I already see a couple things wrong with the text but what did I do wrong and how could I fix it? Quote: She never replied so should I try calling her or just move on to the next one? Im guessing the latter.
Try calling or texting again. Nothing to lose. Quote: Also is this report too lengthy or just right?
Just right. Only advice would be to double-space the paragraphs on future reports.GREAT job for your first approach man. |
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| Author: | OhMyItsRai [ Sat Dec 13, 2014 5:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: First time |
Thanks for the advice and encouragement! Technically it wasn't my "first" time but definitely my first time since I became a PUA in training. I'll probably give her a call sometime relatively soon. |
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