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| Author: | DaWilder [ Fri Nov 07, 2014 4:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | A new start- Log |
I thought it was time to make a proper step and make me accountable for everything I don't do. I'm mid twenties, traveled to 19 countries (Europe and Asia), from Australia. Slept with 7 girls losing my virginity at 22 which was a lot later than I wanted it to but glad it happened. So most of my success and amazing experiences has come from when I was traveling and if I was really going for numbers that could be have been much higher but that's not what I was interested in. Traveling really developed me as a person but when I got home (back to living with my parents and hanging with my friends who are scared to talk to girls) Ive dropped back into old habits and mindset. I always had tons of confidence when traveling but when I'm home its almost like its the opposite. I fault this to my beliefs about the women as well as not being attracted to as many women as I was before I went traveling! The girls I am attracted to I find are either hard to meet or from experience extremely difficult to get with. Whats lacking is my internalized confidence with attractive girls here, but I've had very little success in the past with the very attractive girls in my home town. This might sound stupid but right now I just want to meet a girl I really like and maybe thats causing me to go about it the wrong way. Because my real goals are to become successful in life and I believe if I sort this girl problem out I can become more motivated and focused on what I want to achieve. Few days ago I was shopping and finally broke my being a pussy and not approaching spell and not talking to girls and finally did it. I went direct with 3 girls but didn't hang around long enough to build a connection why is probably why none got back to me. Today I was walking around the shops again but I couldn't talk to one girl! back to square one -_- . My excuse is either shes not hot enough or I bitch out! Arghh My situation - I had an going problem playing too much video games but I've finally decided to give it up for good. Ive graduated University in finance (currently looking for fulltime work), working part time in hospitality, and I'm teaching myself copywriting in hope I can make it in the business and gain some online work. What I need to work on: -Stop being a pussy and go talk to the girl if I like her and not wait for the perfect situation -Not be so picky with which girls I approach? I'm not sure about this one -Dedicate more time to learn copywriting, really be disciplined and land my first client -Find a fulltime job -Start teaching myself italian -Be more disciplined in eating healthy and working out Im aiming to overcome these problems in less than a couple weeks. Just need to really internalize not caring what other people think and not miss the opportunities when I see a girl i like! What goes through my head is one or more of these thoughts, oh theres too many people around, oh i cant run after her now it will be weird, she might have seen me cant go to her now it will be weird, oh shes not hot enough, she looks older than me definitely going to reject me, or dam i wished i talked to her should I run after her? then i dont. Also had a blow to my confidence when I had very little success in online dating. When I traveled it was insanely easy how many women were interested in me then in my hometown its fuckall. The mismatch in my success is a little frustrating but I know I can make it happen. Once a girl is interested in my I'm confident in who I am to close her its just the initial steps. I plan to only meet women during the day as I feel its almost impossible to meet a great girl in a club/bar and too much effort to reward is required for online dating here. Thanks for reading. |
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