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Author:  Le Thaz [ Thu Nov 06, 2014 3:46 pm ]
Post subject:  In need of a small advice.
Alright guys, I'm in need of a piece of advice regarding a girl :)

Story:
She added me randomly on facebook, I accepted and I thought to myself "why not take a shot at it since she added me?".

So I poked her, she poked back... so on and so forth, we started talking and after 3-4 days we went out in a mall for her to buy something for a halloween party. Everything went well, we grabbed a cup of coffee and then I took her to the subway because it was late and she wanted to get home.

At the subway I kissed her, she kissed me back passionately and then we split up, she went home and so did I.
After I got home she texted me if i wanted to swing by her place the next day somewhere around 9:00 PM, so I accepted.
Got there the next day, and we started kissing and bounding on different subjects and I ended up spending the night at her.

What happened?
Well, I couldn't score her, but she did have 2 orgasms that night (manually given by me).

This happened for the next 3 days every night, but nothing else than this.

I have to mention she's at medical school college and she's having a rough schedule, not too much free time. Also she's a little nerdy and smart, and she's not slutty. A good girl, she likes reading books and stuff, a little nerdy but awesome.

Now, this week she has a hellish schedule and we can't see each other, and she's gone cold on me, text messages aren't too "cute" and playful anymore...

What should I do to keep her interested?
We met 1 week ago first time (when we got together) and now I started applying the silent SPAM (no messages and no calling) because she's not texting me if I'm not, so usually I am the one to initiate conversation. I am thinking that this should work, it should prove that I'm not needy and desperate for her and so on...

Is my method good or should I approach a different play??
I really need an advice, I quite like this girl very much....

Help would be greatly apreciated!

With great regards,
Thaz.
Author:  Vandal PUA [ Fri Nov 07, 2014 1:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: In need of a small advice.
Dude, if she invites you way deep down she wants to fuck you. Anyway, don't think of it like "keeping her interest", that's AFC talk.

As for texting her I suck with text game. Just don't come off as needy.
Author:  oceanx [ Fri Nov 07, 2014 2:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: In need of a small advice.
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she's a little nerdy and smart, and she's not slutty. A good girl, she likes reading books and stuff, a little nerdy but awesome.
Thinking that a girl is not a 'slut' and that that is a commendable thing may not be helping you to get laid because you are buying in to her ASD frame. Medical students, lawyers, doctors, etc. will have sex on the first "date" if they are in the presence of someone who is operating in a manner that results in sex.

Reminds me of something I heard in the community once, a pattern or something called "why I love sluts" or something like that, to be told to the girl to try to eliminate her LMR/ASD.
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Now, this week she has a hellish schedule and we can't see each other, and she's gone cold on me, text messages aren't too "cute" and playful anymore...

You didn't close and she got bored. Four nights and no pipe laying = more opportunties than most guys get. Live and learn.
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Dude, if she invites you way deep down she wants to fuck you.
Fully agreed.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Fri Nov 07, 2014 1:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: In need of a small advice.
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You didn't close and she got bored. Four nights and no pipe laying = more opportunties than most guys get. Live and learn.

^ THIS. Right there is exactly why. Well said.
Author:  TouchOfDeath [ Sat Nov 08, 2014 1:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: In need of a small advice.
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You didn't close and she got bored. Four nights and no pipe laying = more opportunties than most guys get. Live and learn.

^ THIS. Right there is exactly why. Well said.
Sry guys, I was reading the post but didn't get that.

Do you mean that he somehow had to overcome her barriers and have sex with her instead of hand orgasms, right?
How to do that?

It has happened to me also, but I don't even understand why do some girls go half way?
Author:  Vandal PUA [ Sat Nov 08, 2014 5:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: In need of a small advice.
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You didn't close and she got bored. Four nights and no pipe laying = more opportunties than most guys get. Live and learn.

^ THIS. Right there is exactly why. Well said.
Sry guys, I was reading the post but didn't get that.

Do you mean that he somehow had to overcome her barriers and have sex with her instead of hand orgasms, right?
How to do that?

It has happened to me also, but I don't even understand why do some girls go half way?
In this case the girl did want to go all the way. If she invites you she wants to fuck you (unless your friends, but he wasn't in that position)/
Author:  TouchOfDeath [ Sat Nov 08, 2014 8:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: In need of a small advice.
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^ THIS. Right there is exactly why. Well said.
Sry guys, I was reading the post but didn't get that.

Do you mean that he somehow had to overcome her barriers and have sex with her instead of hand orgasms, right?
How to do that?

It has happened to me also, but I don't even understand why do some girls go half way?
In this case the girl did want to go all the way. If she invites you she wants to fuck you (unless your friends, but he wasn't in that position)/
I believe that to, what I can't figure out is, how do you swift, from the position that she is saying she doesn't want all the way but only hand stuff, to actually fucking her at the same night?
Author:  oceanx [ Sun Nov 09, 2014 12:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: In need of a small advice.
Look up LMR and ASD on this forum.
Author:  asiandebonair [ Thu Nov 13, 2014 5:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: In need of a small advice.
Seems to me you are starting to like this girl , TBH I actually think she just wants an one off thing instead of pursuing more , perhaps you come off as a player with a very good night lifestyle which explains the random face book add.

Just my two cents.
Author:  Le Thaz [ Mon Dec 01, 2014 3:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: In need of a small advice.
Thanks guys for the help, I backed off because I found someone else.
I asked this girl (medical student) what happened and she said that things escalated quickly and she got scared because she never allowed anybody to get this close in 4 days...

In my defence, I never, and I repeat, NEVER insisted on anything, never invited myself to her place and never pushed too hard, everything came from her side.

Either I gamed her pretty well and she got scared because of this or she might have got bored like you guys said...

Either way, thanks for all your help and support!

Cheers and my deepest regards,
Thaz.
Author:  fudge_88 [ Mon Dec 01, 2014 6:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: In need of a small advice.
Just my two cents before we dead this thread, in case any future peeps read this.

The problem here was that this guy does not know how to stick his penis into a girl. If that had been me I would have slipped my dick out and put the condom that was in my pocket on while fingering her. Then, stuck my dick inside of her for a slow long penetration.

You don't break her concentration and ask verbally "Hey so can we fuck now?" The point of fingering a girl besides the act itself (which is AWESOME!) is to get the girl emotionally riled up enough that she wants dick. Oh you like this baby, here is the real thing.

I can understand how you can make a girl orgasm 3 times and not be able to fuck her though. It's all about the delivery.
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