my thoughts on texting and phoning is this, keep it simple, keep it brief. the ultimate goal is to see the girl in person, so have something set in mind to do. a time, place and this above all: a willingness to walk away. call her or text her. tell her you want to do X at X time and you'll pick her up. if she says she's not sure or is all wishy washy about it tell her ok, if she doesn't want to go you have other plans you can make. if she then says yes she's interested, if she says no she isn't really. there's plenty of other girls willing to make the time. if it's a genuine conflict of scheduleing for them they'll offer another time. you should "see if you're free then". show her you have more things to do than wait on her, and show her she's lucky to be getting time with you. what you should absolutely not do is keep suggesting alternate times to her. this shifts control of the situation back to her and makes it look like you're begging HER for her time when it should (obviously
) be the other way around.