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| Author: | chappelle [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 7:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Went on a date and didnt even realize it |
And no, I didnt pay for anything. I went to a dog walking meetup at a beach today. Four people were going to come besides me, but only I and one girl showed up. I totally did not realize it was everything that could happen on a date, and I think it worked well because of that fact. So I got there and I was walking around looking for people and I found one of the girls, Ashley, who I introduced myself to. We talked about no shows, dogs, what we did for the 4th of july, lots of stuff! During a lull in the conversation she asked if I wanted to walk over to the shore so our dogs could go in the water. We did, just the two of us. Gosh, now that I think of it, the tension was high in both of us. We both understood we were here just as friends for a meetup, but we still had that man and woman tension, trying to make things comfortable with each other when we both really were not. It was cool though, like both of us were ok with silences and nothing happening. A couple times I was just loitering around and I opened a few other people. Every once in a while I would go back and contact Ashley again. It was very casual and cool. What a burden is lifted when you are not there as a "date"! So after playing with dogs, talking to people and casually engaging with Ashley off and on, she informed me she had to leave. I was so aloof, I didnt even think she would come to tell me goodbye, and was a bit surprised by it. But then I noticed she lingered for a bit after I said "aah, ok. Hope your dog does not get your car too dirty." The tension in the silence that followed seemed familiar... but because the pressure was gone, I did not realize it as a moment when I should have number closed. Instead I extended my hand and shook hers goodbye. I noticed a hint of disappointment as she walked away. Is this the way things are supposed to be? Casual and cool, without pressure? Seamlessly moving through A1 and A2 and all that mumbo jumbo without even thinking about it? Gosh... what a taste. What a flavor of the way things could be. Its as if I have just had my first piece of candy. Oh, how I want more. |
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