So first time sargin for me , it went... how do i say, hmmmm ok let me tell you .(bare in mind there is no target in these sets just practise)
So it 25th of january and my best friend birthday, i go to his house for a couple of drinks with two other of my friends and then we head off into town where we would be meetin up with everyone else we know.
When we arrive at the first pub/bar me and my friend Ryan are talkin about the game and i'm sayinto him "I'm sargin tonight i dont care anymore the only way to overcome the fear of approach is to just do it". (ive had a few drinks so im more confident than usual)
Me and Ryan look around for a bit and i spot a two set on there own, realising we had to move fast he hands me £10 and says "go get two drinks and i'll go sit BY them" (lame move ,i just wanted to open but ok )
So i come back with 2 drinks and Ryan it sittin down and theres a space then the HB8 so i sit in the empty space and her bag is right next to me. I use this to open. I tap her on the shoulder, she immediatly turns round i say "hey heres your bag" she repleis with "thankyou" before she turns away i step in .
Me:"Now i have your attention can i get your female opinion on something"
HB8: "sure"
(I use the subject of my guy friend just broke up with his girlfriend how long should he wait before he ask her friend out )
This seems to go down pretty well the HB8 seem to enjoy the fact that its different and im 'genuinely' asking her a questionand that i need her help. So she tells me her views and i compete with them disagreeing and askin her more about this subject to keep the convo going ,meanwhile her friend who has been isolated from the minute i gave HB8 her bag gets up and leaves ( i imediatly strike)
So instead of the HB8 having to turn around to talk to me i pivot into where her friend was previously sittin , now were interfacing. Ryan is just observing with amazment at this point.
Then her friend comes back and sits where i was previosuly sitting, i was hopin Ryan would tear here away but he doesnt do anything at all. So im on my own .
She tries to talk to the HB8 but i close her out and say
"hey hold on a minute were talkin here"
I thought risky move but it worked.
Then i finish talkin then i say to HB8's friend "ok your turn"
I dint pay attention to what she asked i dint care so i butted straight back in askin how they knew each other. Turns out they were lesbian lovers! I thought to myself this set is too big and diffcult for me on my first sarge.
So i get there names and they say they will see me later on at the main club in my local town where everyone goes.
After that i am buzzin, i open another set same technique this time its a 3 set it goes exactly the same as the first one ,no closes but just confidence building, i then open another set only problem were these women were in there 40's. I have a joke with them as they respond to my question with very positive feedback sayin if their son's wanted to get with his ex's best friend she would encourage it and she also tells me im young enough to be her son lol.
After that me and my friends move on to the main club.
I go for another set in there ,this is disaster i walk past the table go to these stairs to me right and turn back around just to get the 10 or 2 O'clock angle perfect. I walk into the set use the same techniques as its been a success just like style taught me, isolate the one girl( i knew it was over staright away) make hardly any conversation except the opinion question and a straight forward reply which was "i dunno probably never" then i was like "ok thanx" and i left .
I am dumbfounded with what happened between the pub/bar sets to the club. Was it the fact it was more relaxing and not as loud as the club or was it i got over confident. Whatever it was that disaster set put me off. All the confidence i had gained earlier on the night was taken away because of one girl who wasnt even that hot.
I havent sarged since and i havent been studyin the game either until now, because i decided i need to get back in if i wanna achive pick-up-artist status.
I dunno if anyone can help me or not id appreciate feed back of any kind really i would peace out playas.
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