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| Author: | _Danger [ Sun Apr 13, 2014 3:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | First Report from a really weird session. |
So tonight I went to Fabric in London. Great club but way too many guys. Right in the beginning a girl around a 7 (who I wasn't really interested in) came up to me and said something. I smiled and nodded...which I ended up regretting because much later on she came up ro me, clinked her glass against mine and as I asked her if the club is always this packed with guys and that I'm only in town for a week she rolled her eyes and walked away. Not so much at what I was saying, just that I was talking. Yeah I didn't offer the best conversation but it still felt like an unreasonable response which made me really regret not finding out what she said at the beginning of the night. Lesson learnt there (also to be honest since it's been a few month's since I've gotten any I would have settled for her if given the chance by the end of the night). The second one was a very hot (at least a 9) girl who I opened with "Did you know, Elvis could get a women just by looking into her eyes and smiling" and then looked into her eyes and smiled. It took her a second to get it but she responded well, laughing. Then what appeared to be her boyfriend came and I buggered off. I regret not at least saying goodbye properly to demonstrate basic social skills to the other girls if they were watching. Or now that I think about it even more, not having asked her "so you're boyfriend's taken you on holiday?" to get information to assess the situation. So far I know I've failed and can kind of see the errors of my ways but this last one baffles me. There were two girls dancing and looking as they were having loads of fun. They were right in front of me, facing each other so I just leaned forward and asked "Can you guys help settle a debate between me and a mate? We need a female opinion. Who's more likely to get more girls, young elvis or old elvis?" (Yeah Elvis was the theme for the evening. Haha made it a bit easier to remember my few lines while my suppressed emotions were trying to run haywire) They kind of brushed me off and ignored it. Then they started doing some fancy footwork dances and I asked them what on earth that dance was and if I can get a video. They were more than happy to comply. I filmed it a bit and then put my phone away before they stopped (I wanted it to look like they were doing it for me and not me filming them because of them...if that makes sense) After that they went back to doing their own thing, cutting me out. At one point the one girl looked at me, mimicked one of my dance moves and said it was cool (I couldn't tell if mockingly) I then did the swinging arm dance move which the girl responded well to and copied too. Then she went back to dancing and they closed me out again. Please can someone tell me what on earth I was supposed to do for the last experience? Any advice on the other two would be great too but this last one has me wracking my brain wondering how the hell it should have been done to be successful. |
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| Author: | Zirk13 [ Sun Apr 13, 2014 4:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: First Report from a really weird session. |
just a quick question, you mentioned you put away your phone so it looked like you did it for you. Did you calibrate during each interaction or after it was over. When a person thinks about whats going on often they are slowing down the interaction. which can feel forced. im not saying trying to understand the interaction is wrong but what I suggest you do is pull yourself to the side when you notice this next time. I wouldn't be surprised if it seemed like you were looking for anything to hook yourself into the interaction from the girls point of view. It's good that you are keeping a theme (like Elvis) for the interaction and if it seems like you dont have anything afterwards just introduce yourself if it seems like they aren't adding to the interaction. It kinda feels like your repeating the opener over and over even during. engange, interact, look for interest, then lead (what it is you want ie isolate, conversate, dance, whatever) then close (ie number kiss whatever it is your wanting. Girls know why guys approach them. If it seems like they question you but are staying enganged to you, this is good, you want them to feel like they are chasing you a bit. But remember just because they ask you questions doesn't mean intent just curiousity |
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| Author: | _Danger [ Sun Apr 13, 2014 8:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: First Report from a really weird session. |
Wow, yeah what you say makes total sense as I look back on the night. My calibration was a bit off, I didn't pause I just may have not gone with the best thing to say. I can also see that I need to do quite a bit more learning/reading so I'm going off to do that! Thanks Zirk |
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