So I've been told that writing FRs improves game....I've also been reading this book -- "Nine Ball" (Jeffy Alen of RSD) where he credits his diligence to writing nightly field reports to his improvement in game. Anyway, thus far, yeah I've known about game blah blah, but fvck, recently I've been feeling that its one of my life's areas where I am an underachiever. Following are "insights" I've obtained from my afc experience from the last few nights out, and things I want to improve. Please let me know if I'm on the right track! (thank you in advance, fellas
) My next FRs will be more event-specific, but this "general" one is sort of a foundation to things I must do to improve my game;1. I need to cut down drinking or being high when going out!
2. INTENT -- I'm ok with approaching and hooking chicks (I think) but even when they show interest, I pussy out and don't push it anywhere. Happened last night, a group of three hot chicks were all over me at this house afterparty I went to. I was stuck at the attract phase...they ended up making out with other dudes lol. Kino and all that stuff is something I need to work on, hard.
3. More field time -- this is vital. I've also realized that for some reason I'm scared to game when with friends. Maybe I should not give a fvck, or start going out alone.
4. INTENT again -- last night, despite my fvckups at this house party of not taking things to the next level with girls, my roommate and I ended up bringing home two girls. The one I liked ended up passing out on my couch because she thought I didn't like her. wtf
5. Touch -- yeah kino whatever. I've realized that I reach hook point much easier when I get frisky with the chicks (in a non-creepy way of course), but like I said earlier, something happens and I cut down on it a few minutes into the interaction, leaving the girls confused as to whether or not I like them. Maybe I need to work on "qualification"
6. Inner game issues -- see...the issue is... I consider myself this hairy, out-of-shape bear who needs to work hard to get pussy. Yet recently, I've been getting told multiple times by girls that I'm cute or whatever. Maybe a brushup on a my self-esteem wouldn't hurt me
7. Cut down on ASSHOLE-MODE -- yeah I'll admit, I come off an asshole when talking to most strangers (according to my friends), especially girls. This is a problem, as I realized last night. I just do it to follow then RSD gurus on the "busting balls" philosophy, but it eventually inevitably leads to girls thinking I don't like them.
There are other things too I want to write about and work on...but I must go now (this hangover isn't helping -- any lifehacks to deal with hangovers effectively wouldbe appreciated -- just not "drink water before you passout--because when I'm blackout drunk, I dont fvcking know when I pass out!). These FRs will keep coming!
Peace,