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| Author: | OMessmer [ Mon Apr 07, 2014 2:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help needed - What should be my next move? |
Hi all, I've been playing the game with an amazing girl for the past 4 months after 10 years of friendship. She has a boyfriend and a kid and so I have a girlfriend and 2 kids, but she's so incredible I simply could not resist playing the game... So for 4 months, I’ve used some patterns, anchoring etc. About 3 months ago, she start saying that she’s feeling something between us and that she feels like she’s cheating on her boyfriend (we haven’t even touch each other at that point). Last Friday was her birthday and I kissed her on the cheek saying happy birthday, nothing fancy. Less than 2 minutes later, she text me saying it was awkward, and she wants more. She came back and hop we go for a long passionate kiss. She came twice just by kissing… The very next day, she text me saying she never felt something like that before and how WOW it was, but we should stop seeing each other because she feels bad for her boyfriend and her familly. I could have run a boyfriend destroyer at that point and win, but my goal is totally different... I would like her to stay with the guy and just be friends with benefits. I had her talk about what makes her feel bad, she points me in a direction, but I simply can't figure out what should be my next move... In short, she doesn't want to hurt her boyfriend, she doesn't want to hurt me because she care for me. Because she can sacrified our friendship if it is going to destroy her familly. She also has a friend that is getting divorced because her husband cheated on her and finally because her boyfriend is doing everything for her and he doesn't deserve that. She also wonder how I can be zen with that and how possible it is for me to feel no remorse for my girlfriend... By Now... What should be the next sneaky move to make her feel good being with me without affecting her relation. Cheers! OMessmer |
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| Author: | prince_prince [ Mon Apr 07, 2014 1:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help needed - What should be my next move? |
Hm...me personally? Sounds like A waiting game. Just wait it out A bit. And on the side talk to A couple of more girls. |
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| Author: | OMessmer [ Mon Apr 07, 2014 3:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help needed - What should be my next move? |
That's what I was thinking... I saw her this morning she basically said the same thing she text me earlier, but this time, she add that she can't but in an ideal world, she would have both of us (her boyfriend and me). I wasn't expecting her so I had to improvised, I think I did pretty good... I told her that moment was the most wonderful thing that could have happened to me and how overwelmed with pleasure I was (she closed her eyes to feel it)... Even if it doesn't happen again, that moment in deeply engraved in my heart, so I can simply imagine the moment and feel it stronger every time... Then, I said something like: "Whatever your decision is, if you decide that we should be just friends, I will respect that. I want you to know that I want to be there for you, if you need to be reassured, I'm here with you now. I will take only what you can offer." She blushed, search for my hand and pulled me close to her (I should say she litterally jumped on me). She kissed me like if there was no tomorrow, and after I've hit those anchor points, she start to quiver with pleasure... Ready for next round |
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| Author: | prince_prince [ Tue Apr 08, 2014 3:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help needed - What should be my next move? |
Hey man. Sounds like you are already in. |
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