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| Author: | TheRegulator [ Sat Feb 23, 2008 4:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Need help phase shifting |
Hey people heres a field report of mine from a night out i had a couple of days ago with a hot girl. heres some background info on the girl prior to the night out. We knew each other from my uni course, we chat very well, there's good banter between us, we sit next to each other quite a lot. Number closed her successfully the other day jus after a lecture and i said i would see her out that night in a local club..... Ok, at 1st it was going TOP, she was with her friends (2 of them) so i went over with my mate and did the formalities. Then i started with my usual banter and she loved it, she was touching me laughing at my jokes, giving back some banter and convo was good. I kept up the kino by giving the odd affectionate touch and it was good, she seemed to respond well to it. 2nd, i got chatting to her mates, to get them on my side and prevent them throwing up the bitch shields and cutting me off from my target. Things got good, i involved my target and her mates in my banter and they were all interested in me. I got even more of a thumbs up from them all when i bought one of my target's friends a drink (as it was her birthday). 3rd, we moved to the dance floor and started to bust out our moves. Her mates gradually began to isolate us both from the convosation and i think they knew i was safe. 4th, i kept my kino to discrete and to powerful places. She liked it when i had my hands on her hips and never shyed away from where i touched, but her body language wasnt 100%. Her facial expressions seemed fine, constantly smiling and lookin comfortable, but when we danced both facing each other she never really looked me in the eyes or got close to me face to face. Also because of this i wasnt entirely sure of touching her hands, i thought this would be a bad move. The night went on and things were good no detrerioration in convosation but....there was elevation to the next level, i couldn't phase shift or kiss close. This is the worst part of my game and it needs work on if im going to pull her! I still see the girl in class and things are still great but i jus need to know where to go from here. Please help i feel stuck!! Cheers. |
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| Author: | Mr. Amador [ Sat Feb 23, 2008 6:03 pm ] |
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Sounds like she was nervous... If she was nervous that means that you skiped the whole confort phase, next time use girl crack stuff, like the cube and cold reading, to make the connection properly, the isolation phase is supoused to be a conversation leading to a connection. If you dance with her when you are suposed to talk...you better be a really good dancer!! The objective of isolation is to get to the girl heart and mind, and to pull and push her...in short; to fuck with her mind, make her belive you are the most interesting guy, and to nullify her defenses. So, isolate the girl, in a place her friends cant see her (so she wont be afraid of appearing as a slut), and you cant talk in a sound-normal enviroment (out-club). eg: tell her "lets get some pizza" or "do you want to have a smoke with me outside or something?" Then start routines, palmistry, whatever. When she gives you three straight IOIs...kiss her Mystery has some great kino escalation routines, like the "bite my neck" one, or the elbow joint one...ect, use one of those too. |
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| Author: | TheRegulator [ Mon Feb 25, 2008 1:37 am ] |
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Hey cheers man, but i was wondering, what is cold reading? |
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| Author: | NickB [ Mon Feb 25, 2008 5:35 pm ] |
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Cold reading is when you tell the girl about herself with acually knowing her. The cube is awesome example of cold reading. the-cube-vt1509.html |
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| Author: | TheRegulator [ Wed Feb 27, 2008 11:59 pm ] |
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Hit a spanner in the works people, think i know the real reason why this bird isnt willing to let her guard down. It is apparent that she has a boyfriend, she has never mentioned him at all in any of the convos and she hasnt got a "relationship status" on facebook. Im not sure of this but, i feel the fact she doesnt make this public knowledge or mention him very much a tad suspicious. not sure how to play this? Any tips? |
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| Author: | djay [ Thu Feb 28, 2008 2:13 pm ] |
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DLV him and DHV yourself, what part of manchester u from m8? im a student up here |
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