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| Author: | jackhere [ Tue Dec 24, 2013 12:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Didn't encourage her to talk more about herself |
I talked to a girl this evening. 1. I didn't neg her, I didn't false disqualify myself to her. But I didn't noticeably try to please her, either. 2. I demonstrated more than enough high values. I did A2 for long than necessary. 3. When she expressed her liking which was different from mine(I like Japan, while she said that she didn't like Japan), I didn't argue with her, but I tried to explain why Japan was good(Why I liked Japan), I didn't simply say, "I understood.". 4. When she talked about herself, I didn't encourage her to talk more. This was the biggest mistake I made. I am wondering how I can naturally encourage a girl to talk about her good points? Do you have any ideas? |
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| Author: | Redlight [ Wed Dec 25, 2013 11:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Didn't encourage her to talk more about herself |
You can make light compliments about the "good points" and ask her questions that encourage her to tell you more... something along the line of "wow, a dental hygienist... I always wondered how can you get your teeth whitened for a longer period of time"... or "wow, you are into volunteering... what is your favourite charity?" or to keep it simple: "wow, you [insert good point]... I always wondered how [insert good point specific question]" this should get her talking for the better part of your date about herself, and make you look like a good listener... good luck! |
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| Author: | Zephh [ Sat Dec 28, 2013 12:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Didn't encourage her to talk more about herself |
To get a girl to talk more, you need to hit on one topic that she will ramble on and on about. Every girl is different; some love movies, others love pets. Just gotta discover what they love. |
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