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| Author: | Flex Montana [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 1:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Going to meet up with my one-itis from 10 years ago |
Alright so Im going out of town to visit an old friend in California this coming Friday. Were leaving Saturday morning to venture off to a neighboring town for a softball tournamnet and some fun afterwards. Friday night I will be in a very small town in Northern California where I once went to college and had met a girl who I fell completely in love with and never got anywhere other than one lame ass kiss. This was ten years ago and weve stayed in touch ever since talking a few times a year over the phone or texting. My past behavior with her has been classic AFC bs. This girl is a solid 8.5 and than when you factor in the small town bs and lack of quality women in that town I have her adjusted to a HB 9.5 or 10 for this particular area and she knows it. I discovered the pu community two months ago so Im still very much a newbie but my age and past relationships Ive had are making my transition relatively painless, fear has seemed to leave me completely which is the best thing thats ever happened to me. Anyway, since Im going to be in this town for the night and there is not an abundance of women until the following day I figure why not run some game on this old flame while Im there and redeem a serious past failure in my life. So I hit this girl up via text two days ago and told her I was going to be staying the night on Friday and that she should take me out for dinner or a drink. She responded with a playful "ha why should i take you out" and asked why I was going to be in town. I told her I didnt see any reason why she shouldnt and than veered the discussion away from dinner. Told her I had to go but that it would be cool to hang out and said I would be in around five. I felt the need to give this advance notice because she is a single mother and she would need the heads up to make arrangements to free herself on Friday. She asked me to keep her posted and I said I would. A little bit of info on the girl and our history. I left this town around 2003 to go to a 4 year University and stayed in touch with her. She had a bf when I met her and things got weird. I always felt like she was leading me on but now I think I was just be a big AFC and didnt do my job. I ended up moving back to this small town one year later and dropped out of school to pursue this woman, I even ended a solid relationship with a wonderful girl to do so. (Valedictorian of the University I was attending) When i moved back things started off good and she even moved me into her house until I could rent a place of my own. Things went downhill from there. She came home one night with a new bf and shit just got awkward. She asked me to leave shortly after and I did and a few months later I tried to engage her bf in a fist fight on a drunken cinco de mayo night. I was so devastated by this that I moved away to my current location. Settled down and met a new girl and got married and didnt think about this broad for years. She contacted me through facebook a few years ago to say hi and I accepted her but still I was happy with my wife and never talked to her. Than when my marriage began to fall apart I began interacting with her again. Ive been over to visit guy friends of mine about twice a year for the past two years and we always meet up for a drink or whatever. Im divorced now and I want to fuck this girl for obvious reasons. Considering our history and the type of woman she is i think a straight up direct approach to this will be my best avenue. I plan to meet up engage in some quick catch up small talk and than clearly state my intentions to her with 100% confidence and indifference. (something ive never done with her) I got to stop here now because Im getting off from work but I will reply again to this and post my results. Any advice would be much appreciated. |
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| Author: | finibangin [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 4:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Going to meet up with my one-itis from 10 years ago |
Get over it. Current US population 317,053,680 start fresh |
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| Author: | Flex Montana [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 2:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Going to meet up with my one-itis from 10 years ago |
Thank you for the response. Sound advice and "getting over it" is exactly what I intend on doing. I'm not results oriented, I'm going to have fun Friday in the company of this girl because that is the best avenue to having a good time and what I want to do. The population of this particular town is 3, 500 people so it's not like there is a whole lot of options, if there were I would seek those out instead. The town I will be in Saturday night has a population of 88, 000 people. I should have stated that on Saturday I will be going out with my friends to meet women. I just didn't feel the need to write about it because there's no story there or anything interesting about it. Truly im not in any need of any type of validation from this girl, but the fact remains she is incredibly good looking and I should sleep with her if the opportunity presents itself. And yes that will in turn act as sort of a milestone or great conquest to me because of the long history. |
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| Author: | finibangin [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 10:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Going to meet up with my one-itis from 10 years ago |
then just escalate kino, if she retracts.. you know you tried and shell make a good friend |
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| Author: | Flex Montana [ Fri Nov 15, 2013 5:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Going to meet up with my one-itis from 10 years ago |
Cool, I'll have a story on Monday. |
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| Author: | finibangin [ Fri Nov 15, 2013 7:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Going to meet up with my one-itis from 10 years ago |
btw i live in a small town like that in ca what town is it ha |
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| Author: | abstracted [ Sat Nov 16, 2013 3:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Going to meet up with my one-itis from 10 years ago |
Some practice with gaming and your past one-itise's will all melt away. I had my ten year grad reunion this summer. Of my 500 person class, not a single girl was interesting any longer, including all the formerly hot popular ones and my ex girlfriend that I'd fawned over for 5 years. I caught up with my friends briefly and left after an hour to go bang a model. Still hope you close that one :p |
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| Author: | Flex Montana [ Tue Nov 19, 2013 6:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Going to meet up with my one-itis from 10 years ago |
Alright so here's how the weekend went. The name of the town is Weed close to the Oregon border on interstate 5. Got a text from the one-itis that she had an event to attend at the ski resort. I took this as her blowing me off so I didn't bother with worying about her the whole weekend. I know kind of a let down for the story uihad built up. Anyway, Friday night my friend and I scoured the fuck out of the three small towns looking for girls, but like I said this area is horrible. No luck Friday night whatsoever, not one single girl worth wasting any time on. We ended up at the bowling alley in weed kicking it with the bartender. Saturday night however went much better. After playing in the softball tournament that u could have cared les about we spent way too much time bbqing at a married couples house with other married couples and this guy ordered the ufc fight so I stayed to watch hendricks end up getting robbed. By the end of that it was almost 11 but we finally went out in Redding. Ended up at a place called Shyes Lounge I think. Me, my male friend, and the girl he brought that he wanted who had massive fake tits. She was great to have around. She made my friend insanely jealous though to the point that he ruined his night out by getting too drunk and passing out at the bar pissed off because she was giving guys hugs lol. I tried to talk some sense into him the next day but I was met with badgering comments and challenges to prove how I'm better with girls. Anyway at the club I spent the first half hour next to fake tits, took her out on the dance floor etc.. Than I started to approach girls. First couple of Artemus went nowhere. I stepped outside into the designated smoke lounge to gather myself and get my mentality where it needed to be. About ten feet away was a group of Asian guys with one girl who happened to be very cute. So I walked up to the group and chatted the dudes up. I started by asking them about the Asian community in Redding. The was a lot of Asians in this club so I just stated the obvious. I related back by telling them I was from Hawaii where a very large Asian community exist. One of these guys then pulls the girl over who by now has been completely ignored, I had even introduced myself to all five guys and shook their hands. He introduces her to me and when we shook hands I just didn't let go and held eye contact as I continued talking to her. She loved it right away. She said she wanted to get a drink so we held hands all the way through the crowd until we reached the bar. She starts telling me what drink she wants and im not buying this girl a drink, but as luck would have it the bartender was a guy on our softball team and he hooked us up so I got to avoid that whole situation. I told her I wanted to dance and I led her out to the dance floor where we danced for ten minutes, the whole time I'm just rubbing her up on her thighs and waist. Than I took her by the hand and went over to the corner next to the door going back outside where I pulled her in by her waist and just started kissing her. Her friends came over and after a few minutes I pulled her away again and we repeated. I got her phone number but there's no reason to talk to her because I live in Nevada. But I sent her a text the next day just to tell her I had fun. She left the club and by this time my bud is fully asleep with his head on the bar lol, fake tits is chatting up some guy. I pulled her away for a drink which was free again. I couldn't keep my eyes off her tits she had this five button long sleeve shirt on where only the last button was buttoned. So I told her I needed to motor boat those titties and she said ok, so I motor boated them lol. Anyway we got my buddy and went to Dennys and than back to her house where he crashed on the couch and I decided not to take it any farther with fake tits and slept in the spare room. |
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| Author: | Flex Montana [ Tue Nov 19, 2013 6:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Going to meet up with my one-itis from 10 years ago |
As far as the one-itis finibangin you were right. Best to just forget about her. If she goes out of her way to see me next time I'm down there I'll run my usual game whatever that is if the opportunity arises, but she will have to hear about me being in town through word of mouth, she won't be getting a text or call from me anytime soon |
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