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Author:  Englishlad [ Thu Oct 24, 2013 11:31 am ]
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Thought i would start a progress log so that I myself could analyse what I did the previous night and hope to learn from it. Any further help would be great
Have been out a few nights before and had picked up on a few symbols and made some approaches though was pretty drunk each time and need to phase that out as I can't keep relying on alcohol to give me confidence. Generally not too bad looking and have made out with a few girls but this is why I'm on PUA to improve, especially as I have realised I have AA and inner game problems, all of which need working on.

Author:  Englishlad [ Thu Oct 24, 2013 11:38 am ]
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23/10/13
Night out at the major uni club:
made a few approaches, 1 girl being in one of my lectures and was very receptive to my kino and chatting. However, I failed to escalate and my inner game problems caused me to flake out and walk away with my friend after saying I might see her later- definately need to work on this area
Secondly going on the no fap challenge to improve my energy and general well-being, have seen how much better you feel after 1 week.
Finally approached a 3 set of HB7's. Made to hand shake the first and she was receptive to saying high and telling me her name. When i went to handshake the other she made fun of probably what was an old style and I lost confidence, as she pulled her friends away. Should have realised I needed to ignore her and turn back to the other girl, instead I allowed her to dictate the tempo. Mental note to never let that happen again.

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Author:  Englishlad [ Sun Oct 27, 2013 2:03 am ]
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Lesson 1- do not fumble with bras and remember to bring a condom, alcohol really does not help
first succesful game just no lay report to follow! :(

Author:  Englishlad [ Thu Oct 31, 2013 4:08 pm ]
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Lesson 2- Alcohol really does not help game. Need to drink a lot less so I know what I am doing.
Still having problems on inner game, approaching is tough/ the psychological effect on me is not good. I need to resolve this soon. Plan to meditate more, start the no-fap scheme, and work on affirmations.

Author:  Englishlad [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 10:30 pm ]
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Night out 04/11/13
Find out my inner game problems are still bad, tried to phase out my drinking to provide confidence, and instead hit the club with only two pints in me.
Was not very successful in the sense that I was not confident enough to approach sets, however I did gain the attention of one of the girls in the group, gained her number and she wanted to hold my hand, though nothing more as she already had a boyfriend.
Still have to work on my inner game, re-gain focus through meditation and experience in the field. Learning and assimilating all the PUA stuff slowly but at least I am improving!

Author:  Englishlad [ Mon Nov 04, 2013 1:51 pm ]
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Found out i have not focused on my problems much over the past week
Still have crippling inner game problems but have not taken the time to rectify them.
Therefore i will now lay out a routine for me to follow to improve my confidence:

Wake up early: 7-8 am
Meditate for 10-30 mins, focusing on clearing my mind
while listening to music, repeat confident affirmations that will get me in the right frame of mind.
Aim to initiate 1 full conversation a day, first starting with housemates, then spreading out to strangers, thus improving my communication skills and decreasing AA.

I aim to do this everyday: report in a week to hope to find an improvement

Author:  Englishlad [ Sat Nov 16, 2013 1:29 am ]
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Feel like im mired in AA, really just need to take the plunge, its fucking with my confidence

Author:  Englishlad [ Fri Dec 13, 2013 5:05 pm ]
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Got all the signals today from HB8, smiles and strong eye contact. Failed to approach.
Writing this down as testament to myself never letting this happen again, from now on I will approach no matter what, otherwise i'm never gonna progress.

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