I was at the "TheWeeknd" Concert, as my friends and I were leaving the concert we found these 3 asian girls that I found attractive. I whispered to my friend "Dude, look at these chicks...so hot." So my friend goes straight up to them and says one of my favorite openers, he said "Hey! Can you take a picture of me and my friend?" It's a really good opener, because it shows no sign of "Pick up". They are oblivious of what you're really doing. So the girl takes a picture of us, and my friend shouts out "Okay now you guys get in the photo with him! (me)" So I step in the photo with the three girls, we get a photo together, it was really fun for them and they thought it was funny. Later I posted that photo on FaceBook.
Being the small world we live in, they found me on FB and requested me because we had mutual friends (Social Proof, Commonalities). One of my friends gave me the advice to "Poke" her on Facebook. You'd be surprised how great of an opener it is, and to see if she gives you an I.O.I. She poked me back (indicator of interest) so I messaged her "You know it's dangerous to poke strangers! Guess your parents never taught you that." She responded and we got the conversation rolling. I talked to her a lot, and made sure I left on EVERY high-note, so I could leave her wanting more, it actually lead to her messaging me twice.
Once we got talking about our occupations, (I coach Gymnastics) She asked me if I could teach her how to tumble. I respond with "Sure, Once you take me on a date". What I'm doing here is switching roles, usually guys are the ones taking girls out, I'm making it her duty to work for me. She replied with "What?? I'm the girl here..." DO NOT GIVE IN. Stand your ground as a man, and the prize. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. I replied "I'm not that easy, you gotta wine & dine me babe!"...She got defensive, "I don't even have your number!" So I replied with my number "(my number) I'm waiting
" She replied "I never asked." So I took the craziest risk (Atleast I thought so) my PUA friends told me to say "Aaannndd that's why you're losing me." She gave me A SHIT TEST. This is COMMON among women, in all aspects. She said "Hate when bitches play hard to get. Goodbye." DO NOT APOLOGIZE, DO NOT GIVE IN. You are Alpha male, you don't apologize for who you are and what you stand for. So I replied "Playing hard to get while giving you my number? Well that's a first." She respond "Hahaha true..." I didn't reply to after that, 5 minutes later. SHE TEXTED ME, "So where are we going on our first date baby?
" I told her the bar my friends and I we're going to, she didn't seem to want to go to the bar I was going to. But I didn't change it for her, I made it seem like I didn't NEED her to come. She ended up settling for the bar I wanted. I then took her to the bar next door, and we danced all night, I demonstrated how fun of a person I was by doing crazy things like grinding on her (As if I was the girl) She thought it was hilarious! I then told her I was leaving, I didn't make it seem like I needed to be around her all night, I made it seem like I was completely fine leaving her. That I had better things to do. (DHV), So I gave her a hug goodbye, she grabbed me and kissed me. How the pick up went in steps...
1. We opened (Picture opener)
2. Messaged/Opened again (Poking on FB)
3. Showed commonalities in conversation
4. Neg (Bringing up date)
5. Aced shit test (stood ground)
6. DHV
7. Kiss closed