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Author:  Lord Eshaan [ Tue Sep 03, 2013 6:36 am ]
Post subject:  Told her friend i was creepy

Hey guys, first time posting here. There is this girl in my neighborhood who my friend tried to hook up with but failed. I saw her multiple times, but it was always, hi's and hello's with us. A couple of days ago, I asked for her number, and she gave it to me. I text flirted with her that night using Jesse's text game from project go, and got pretty good responses, (she sent alot of LoLs and played back with a text game i initiated, but before ending told me "lol slow down with the nicknames tiger"). On the second day after taking her number we text joked about how she thought i was drunk the otherday, i told her maybe it was her influence on me. She LoLed back with a text, and said again that she didnt know what to say. I texted her that she didnt have to say anything, and that she should come to the balcony in two minutes since i was on her street. I called afterwards, and she didnt pick up. I sent her a text joking about how i waved at the wrong woman who seemed creepy interested, so i wasnt sticking around long. After calling her one last time, i sent her a good night sugar text. After a days gap, my friend who failed at getting her, asks me what the hell i'm up to, because apparently i creeped her out by coming to her street (which was because i was already out there nearby, trying to woo my girlfriend back, so i thought i'd stop by and have a fun conversation with this girl) however, this warning came immediately after i sent her a text telling her i needed advice from a chill woman who knows little about me.
Help me relieve this crappy feeling i have of possibly being a creep, and if and how i went wrong with this guys, or if this chick is simply over-reacting.
Thanks alot people advices would be gold here.

Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Sep 03, 2013 7:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Told her friend i was creepy

What makes you think a girl sending you LOL means she is even remotely interested in you?

You walked past this girl and creepily said "Hi" multiple times then randomly asked for her phone number? C'mon man.
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that she should come to the balcony in two minutes since i was on her street.
Bro, are you serious? That would creep me the fuck out too.

Here you are, becoming fuckin text buddies with this girl, Who you think is interested in you because she is sending you back "LOL" and you go and show up on her street? Could you appear ANYMORE needy?

It is very safe to say that you most definitely creeped her out.

It's cool man. We've all done it. You have to realize that just because a girl is responding to you, doesn't mean that she likes you. It means that she is trying to be nice to you and not let you down so hard. Girls have adapted with the times man. And its for your own sake too... If she were to tell you from the get go, when you randomly asked for her number, "NO! I DON'T LIKE YOU! GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME!!" or if ALL girls were to just say how they felt, guys would go killing themselves and shit. They are doing it because they don't want to hurt your feelings. She probably thought you were a nice guy then you went and made her feel all WIERD.

Learn how to read girls my dude.

-Majik

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