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Author:  Night-owl [ Wed Aug 14, 2013 10:51 am ]
Post subject:  I don't understand, what to think and do...

Hi guys,

need a piece of adice from you, as more skilled PUA as I'm. I was pretty good pick up in certain way back in the times, but last years are pretty horrible so please take it with reserve. This is the story.
One day after work I went to FAX COPY to print something so I can redesign my baseball cap. I went there, waiting and suddenly a beautiful women appeared. Her colleague said, that she will look at my demands. So I just sat with her, she plugged in my phone and we were braging and laughing about that funny stuff like how slow is my phone and how that punk on the pic I'm priting looks like one famous slovakian rock star, about the strong pink color in that piece etc. I also saw something like a guy photo on her phone so I thought she's taken (but it could be some Johnny Depp or something like that...) and then when everything was finished I just took wallet in my hand.

ME: So what am I owning?
SHE: Nothing
ME: What? What do you mean nothing?
SHE: Well, you brought your own paper so technically, you don't have to pay
ME: But there's still the color to pay
SHE: Don't worry, we have good mood in here ( smiles)
ME: Seriously? I will pay it.
SHE: No, No, it's ok. (still smiling)
ME: Seriously?
SHE: Yes
ME: I mean you don't shoot me with crossbow in knees if I'll go just through the door
SHE: NO
ME: Ok..I'm leaving...soo Thank you very much and have a nice day
SHE: You too

After I went out I was like “What the f*ck? Was it some IOI?” Then I was talking about it with friends and they assure me, it was IOI and I should compensate it with inving her fo coffee. So I went there next day to fix this. In work I worked-out some stuff to print (I needed also) and I went there. She was there, I was smiling, she not. So I was pretty confused. After few words she smiled and laugh again in bit. I waited till I was going to pay.

SHE: so this time it's 1,90
ME: okay

I gave her bunch of little coins

ME: sorry, was on exchange today
SHE: ooookay
ME: and about the yesterday, I want to compensate it with inviting you for a coffe
SHE: No, no, it's ok
ME: Are you sure? Shouldn't we compensate it?
SHE: No, it's nothing
ME: Really? No, let us take some coffe.
She: Next time

I left with another “What the fu*k” moment repeating myself “Next time? What?!”

I've notice my mistakes as:
1.Unconfident – I bit*hed out, when I should have to push
2.Too much asking instead of inviting her

What should I do next, what does she meant please give me some advice guys. THANK YOU

Author:  Tr@veler [ Wed Aug 14, 2013 11:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I don't understand, what to think and do...

Quote:
Hi guys,

need a piece of adice from you, as more skilled PUA as I'm. I was pretty good pick up in certain way back in the times, but last years are pretty horrible so please take it with reserve. This is the story.
One day after work I went to FAX COPY to print something so I can redesign my baseball cap. I went there, waiting and suddenly a beautiful women appeared. Her colleague said, that she will look at my demands. So I just sat with her, she plugged in my phone and we were braging and laughing about that funny stuff like how slow is my phone and how that punk on the pic I'm priting looks like one famous slovakian rock star, about the strong pink color in that piece etc. I also saw something like a guy photo on her phone so I thought she's taken (but it could be some Johnny Depp or something like that...) and then when everything was finished I just took wallet in my hand.

ME: So what am I owning?
SHE: Nothing
ME: What? What do you mean nothing?
SHE: Well, you brought your own paper so technically, you don't have to pay
ME: But there's still the color to pay
SHE: Don't worry, we have good mood in here ( smiles)
ME: Seriously? I will pay it.
SHE: No, No, it's ok. (still smiling)
ME: Seriously?
SHE: Yes
ME: I mean you don't shoot me with crossbow in knees if I'll go just through the door
SHE: NO
ME: Ok..I'm leaving...soo Thank you very much and have a nice day
SHE: You too

After I went out I was like “What the f*ck? Was it some IOI?” Then I was talking about it with friends and they assure me, it was IOI and I should compensate it with inving her fo coffee. So I went there next day to fix this. In work I worked-out some stuff to print (I needed also) and I went there. She was there, I was smiling, she not. So I was pretty confused. After few words she smiled and laugh again in bit. I waited till I was going to pay.

SHE: so this time it's 1,90
ME: okay

I gave her bunch of little coins

ME: sorry, was on exchange today
SHE: ooookay
ME: and about the yesterday, I want to compensate it with inviting you for a coffe
SHE: No, no, it's ok
ME: Are you sure? Shouldn't we compensate it?
SHE: No, it's nothing
ME: Really? No, let us take some coffe.
She: Next time

I left with another “What the fu*k” moment repeating myself “Next time? What?!”

I've notice my mistakes as:
1.Unconfident – I bit*hed out, when I should have to push
2.Too much asking instead of inviting her

What should I do next, what does she meant please give me some advice guys. THANK YOU
This is a nice learning experience. This is most likely over. You didn't make the move on her the first time, therefore she didn't think you wanted anything and in her mind she just moved on from the potential of you two. Now you know that as soon as a woman smiles at you or gives you any sort of IOI just make the move. Ask for the number!

Author:  Night-owl [ Wed Aug 14, 2013 1:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I don't understand, what to think and do...

Quote:

This is a nice learning experience. This is most likely over. You didn't make the move on her the first time, therefore she didn't think you wanted anything and in her mind she just moved on from the potential of you two. Now you know that as soon as a woman smiles at you or gives you any sort of IOI just make the move. Ask for the number!
Thank you for the answer. But I'm gonna try to go there day or two after that to suprise her with "Did you miss me?!" opener and then tell her that "I came for the next time, so let's change numbers and grab some coffe :)" well, I hope it will be effective, if not, well, another experience :D.

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