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Author:  j00pwned [ Tue Feb 12, 2008 5:18 am ]
Post subject:  First post, A field report.
First of all, I live in Boise, Idaho.

There's this girl from Seattle in one of my classes that's pretty hot, I'd say an 8, 5'7" with an excellent body & face, and is giving me huge amounts of interest.

We had to tell stories in class (communication 101) on Friday, so I told the one about how my ex-girlfriend broke her arm and I rescued her while we were out doing Urban Exploration (had to vault her on top of an 8 foot wall and carry her to car, then drive to hospital).
After class, HBSeattle walks up next to me on the sidewalk and says "That was a good story."
"Thanks" then we start a little dialogue about UE(urban exploration). She's interested, and I can point out little things in the surrounding buildings (like the campus library's roof) saying "I've been up there" "Oh, been in the tunnels beneath the math & geosciences building" and so on. I'm totally rockin' it.

Anyway, that was the day that I was meeting a friend Joe in another building, so we parted ways and she said "See you Monday".

She got to class Monday, smiled and said hi as she sat next to me. We chatted about the weekend, I told stories about snowmobiling with my buddy Joe. As class finished up, she waited for me while I put my coat on and opened me in the hall with "So how long have you been snowmobiling?". Anyway, we talked about random BS on the way to her next class, hacking & social engineering & lockpicking & UE and whatever.

That was one of my tests to see how interested she was:
"Yeah, security's kind of one of my main hobbies, but it's one of those esoteric things that you don't find many people interested in. Whenever I do, I usually keep talking until the person's ear falls off while they nod and smile, kind of like what you're doing right now" (said with a grin).
"No, no, hacking's something I've kind of been interested in (this means she really isn't, but rather, is trying to find common ground). What have you hacked?"
"Well, the college systems. Lots and lots of hacking here" So I explain a couple hacks I've done and a remote power supply in some cable company in ohio that I have admin rights on, glancing over the details and giving the juicy stuff.

When we got to her building, she knew I didn't have a class, so as we were approaching I made up "I suppose I'll walk in with ya, I've gotta get a coffee from the place in there, everywhere else burns theirs".

Ended with her kind of awkwardly leaning towards me while I stood in line for coffee. I gave her a funny look and she said "See you, umm, Wednesday"
"Have a good one!" says I.

Next day in class (Wednesday), I pick a bad seat where I can't read the board, but I arrived early, so no worries.
HBBosnian (HB8, petite, cute face) is sitting down already, and I stand and say "Hmm, I need a better seat" to myself.
"Come sit here" says she.
"Oh, well, if you insist" and I sit next to her in the seat she indicated

HBSeattle walks in the room and tries to sit in a seat a little bit far away, I look at her like she's ridiculous, say "Come, here" and point to the seat to my left.
She giggles and sits next to me, saying "Sorry! I didn't see you when I came in!"

So, HBBosnian giggles at my witticisms and such during class and taps me on the arm to get my attention a few times throughout class, generally being flirtatious.
The activity was to write down what person you thought belonged in each stereotype category given, based off of only what they looked like & what you'd heard so far in class. At the end of our suppositions, we went over who belonged to each category by a raise of hands & tallied up our scores
One of the categories for stereotypes was "Is a real romantic", so HBBosnian giggles when we get to that one and leans over "I put you down for that one"
"Oh really. Well, at least you got something right. How'd you know?" said with a grin.
"The story you told about your girlfriend"
"Ah, yes, I do find myself romantic at times"

Another girl that I know from highschool is sitting on the other side of HBBosnian and says"Guys are so much more romantic than girls"
me: "It's because we try harder! You girls make it difficult for us guys" and they both giggle.

Another one of the categories was "Is in a relationship that's lasted for more than two years"

Surprise? Both HBBosnian and HBSeattle raise their hands to indicate their membership in that group.

That Friday, I get HBSeattle's phone number with an opening to potentially go out salsa dancing that weekend (she made an explicit reference to her boyfriend)

Anyway, this girl is meeting me before communication class (we both have a 2 hour gap between the class before comm and comm.) in the student union, she offered to buy me lunch if I wanted it the first day we met and we had a little discussion about her boyfriend. Turns out he's 23 (she's 19), an out of work construction worker, and doesn't go to school. They're both staying with her dad (he's rich) until they can "get jobs and move out" (and she has a job. Boyfriend is pretty much mooching.)

Question is, how do I play it from here?
Author:  They Call Me Lucid [ Tue Feb 12, 2008 10:25 am ]
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depends on who you are. you will get multiple opinions on this one. just go with what is in your heart and understand the consequences to every option before you do anything.
Author:  space [ Thu Feb 14, 2008 9:17 am ]
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Yeah pretty good. grats man.

But you dont escalate fast enough.

You know shes attracted. Now youve got to show some interest. How do you do that without coming off as needy and low value? You qualify.

IE

small qualifier

are you smart?
are you fun?
are you adventurous?

medium

can you cook?
whats your 3 best qualities?

big

What have you got going on for you besides your looks?
if you could be anything in the whole world with no chance of failure what would you be?

Then you reward her :

"Yeah I like that"

if you compliment is to heavy, release with a funny remark, like "to bad your such a dork"

You can and should qualify everytime she makes an effort to impress you. Even if she say "im stupid as fuck", if she makes an effort qualify her. How to get her to make an effort? Well you get her attracted then you ask screening question. This is one strategy. There are more.

You should also escalate everytime you qualify.

IE

"I like that about you, lets go get sit and get a coffee" or "give me your phone number".

Rewarding her is not only verbal. You should lean in a bit and kino slighty or take kino to the next level.

You havent shown any interest and this is BAD. You havent kino and this is BAD. Classroom is a bad place to game. You wanna get her out asap and have a day 2 with her. Then kino + comfort. Then you bring her back to your place to fuck.

You dont wanna be stuck into the "classmate" category. You wanna be into the fuck-able category.

If you dont get the interaction to the next level she wont do it for you, and shes gonna get bored.
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