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Author:	newborn [ Mon Feb 11, 2008 5:59 pm ]
Post subject:	Semi-up, what should I have done?
Okay first off lets set the scene... Its the first chance I've had to test out some skills since learning and reading about 'The Game' and I decided to try them at a house party. Now i'm naturally a pretty confident person and can chat with a girl without being nervous etc. but when it comes to actually making a move on them and letting them know your interested I always seem to screw up. Anywho, there are only 2 fit girls at the party both HB 8's imo, and there are like 6 guys, 3 of which are REALLY going for it, one of them is me I see them on the sofa so I stroll on over and posistion myself in between them and the guys talking to them, so I am closest. I open up with some small talk and them give them the 5 lies game and best friends test, both went down well, so now I have their attention. I talk to them both equally for a while, I didnt ignore the one a wanted in particular becuase I figured she would automatically start talking to one of the guys. Then i need to take a toilet break, and **** me it was a costly toilet break, as i was gone the vultures swarmed in for the kill i had been patiently working on for the last 20 mins, i come back and both of them are being chatted up by the other guys, and there isnt a space i can sneak into this time... After about 5-10mins i see and opening and resume my fluffing of the brunette (the other was blond and was talking to someone else, so i figure i could afford to loose one of them). The brunette keeps putting her hand on my leg and at one point actually apologies for it, and i'm not sure whether that was to hint at the fact that she was getting kino with me or she was ACTUALLY apologising for it. And then it goes downhill... I'm thinking i should go for the kiss, but i'm not sure, i see her getting bored, and i'm getting drunk even quicker. She then gets up and disapeers. about 15mins later i see her snogging another guy in the corner...GUTTED So tell me, what should I have done??? (Oh btw I texted her the next day to try and recover, by asking her out for valentines, she said she was going out with the family, so i asked if i could just take her out another time, she said, and i quote; "Yeah maybe x" Talk about a loss of interest...)

Author:	Ohboyotellama [ Tue Feb 12, 2008 12:23 am ]
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Hrm sounds like you coulda tried negging a little bit while this was going on like when she was touching your leg which is an IOI (mystery does this alot) whoa there speed racer did I say you could touch me? This isn't a free attraction over here (waves hand in front of body and face as if showing off body) you must be rich or something! and other things remember man pull the trigger frequently I think you missed a golden opportunity but you can still recover from it if that is the route you want to go remember man only 28000 days to live and in 1 day that a woman goes out she gets hit on 5 times she goes out 4 times a week theres 4000 weeks in 28000 days and that means she will go out 16000 times during that period and get hit on 80000 times.......ok maybe I went a little too crazy on the math part but PULL THA DAMN TRIGGA! I personally think guys not pulling the trigger is one of the biggest mistakes most AFCs make even PUAs make this mistake sometimes so just learn to be bold whats the worst that could happen? you get bitchslapped and you get over it.

Author:	speed-bird [ Tue Feb 12, 2008 1:32 am ]
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Since it was a house party it's a good bet that they weren't the only two girls there. Work the room and hit up as many sets as you can. I was at a party on Saturday night and I actually made a point of not hanging out with the same girls for too long, I made sure to be seen talking to / dancing with the maximum number of girls. I'd work them and build a bit of comfort, then eject and go and work another set. It's a house party and not a pub - the girls aren't going anywhere. The two you were going for? Don't sweat having to take a toilet break. I used to get uptight about that but now I don't give a shit because even if some other guys do swoop in, I know that once I start hitting on another set on my return, either the previous set will have worked as social proof for the current set, or the current set will get a jealousy plotline going with the previous set. Oh, and don't drink.

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