So week 2 of getting back in the swing of things and it's kinda like putting on your favourite jacket. You know the fit, you know how good you used to look and feel in it, but the fashion has changed. After a slow but positive weekend I thought I'd refresh myself on 'rules of the game'. I know most of you gentlemen are into the more 'natural game' however I like the mPUAs from yester year. Not so much as rules to follow but ideas or add-ons to my own style. So my latest Mmuse was the writings of Gun Witch(GW).
So not going to bore you with details I ant to draw your attention to what I discovered about congruence. Stopped this girrl as she was walking past with some crappy comment, busted her balls on philosophy (in a club, weird huh) a few IOI's here and there. Found out she speaks 3 languages. So now we come to the important things.
Jack: (stealing GW line) Hey you're really interesting. Even if I didn't want to fuck you I'd still want to hang out with you.
*heart pounding rib cage, breathing masking the collective inhalation every cell in body has just taken in suspense*
HB: *Weighs up what I just said*
HB: You're messing with me aren't you??
Jack: No, you speak loads of languages that is sexy.
HB: Oh there is my friend (she had lost her)
Jack: Don't worry about her hang out with us. Well, me.
*HB leaves*
*Jack you can't let her see you still here in a few minutes you got to move too*
So later in the night I see her from the balcony I'm standing on shaking her shapely torso in those tight denim cut offs, hypnotising me with the perfectly timed undulation of her pelvic cradle. GW's voice (well, one I gave him as I've never heard him speak, it's pretty cool actually kinda like Bradley Cooper but more Mid-West) "Make the ho say no". I grab my wing dude look who it is *points*.
things beyond things: Mate let's go and say hi.
Jack: But I don't know what to say!! (can you believe this? Twenty minutes ago I just told her I wanted to fuck her and now I'm worried.)
things beyond things: Dude just say something like " found your friend then?"
Jack: No, fucking chance but let's go down there anyway.
Here is where I begin to fail and the realisation kicks in.
I'm on the dance floor "minding my own business" she walks past me and pretends to not notice me, we both know that's not the case.
Jack: Oh hey, are you following me??
HB: *Looks at me with doe eyes and starts dancing*
Jack: *Dances but cannot match the sinuously, svelte sway of the sensual siren and is lost for words/actions/ideas*
*The Window Shuts*
Jack: Exits stage left.
What I wanted to draw your attention to is my lack of congruence. She saw me as a man with confidence and a possible option for some bare assed midnight fun. She gave me the attention and I did nothing. The only thing worse than making a bad choice is no choice.
There you have it. A lesson learned in congruence. I do have one question for those that have stayed with me to the end.
1. When faced on the dance floor in a similar situation does one slide an arm around the waist and (according to R- Kelly) try a little bump 'n' grind?? Or does one try to follow what she does, or suggest getting some air?? Keep in mind my dance skills are a little above two step but not far.
Ttyl
- Jack
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Her reaction will either be good or nothing. Doesnt matter either way. Take your time but not too long. Escalate my good man! Any time she tries to touch you move like a snake with level 2-3. 
She will get frustrated and eventually give up the package for the hard core dancing. When this happens, its a good time to race to levels 5-6-7 like full body contact, or letting her use your knee for a grinder! At this point youre job is done.