Tonight I went to meet up with my co worker from my company. I don't see her often due to the fact that we both work in different locations but for the same company. Anyways, this is the first time I have seen her since I saw her at a work meeting which was about almost 2 months ago..
Initially when we saw each other we gave each other a hug and all the normal greetings. She then bought my a coffee which I insisted that I would get my own but she got it for me anyways (free stuff!!)
So I looked around the place to find a seat that I WOULDNT be sitting across from her but instead next to her and luckily I found a circular corner booth so I was sitting next to her and not infront. In the beginning she asked me if I was staying over in the area since I drove an hour away from where I live because I initially was suppose to be meeting a friend besides her. So I jokingly said to her " If you let me stay at your place, I'll have a place to stay for the night." We talked about work since we do the same role and just all the work politics that's going on within the company. Then she started to tell me about her future job, which I never asked about.. she had just started talking about it through transition from our work topic... It was insightful to listen to, even tho I didn't say much because she kept talking non stop... I switched the topic and we talked about travelling and asked me if I were going to take any trips. So blah blah the normal then she just starts to mention about her plans on going away to Utah. So pretty much she was open in telling me all these things without me even asking..
Afterwards, we talked about pets and she showed me her pics of her new dog she had got all and she started to point at her pants and mention about shedding, and I teased her about how she needs 3-4 rollers everywhere she goes now, I then touched her leg. She looked down and back at me but it was so casually that I don't think it even phased her..
Then I asked her about her hair which I really liked because she dyed it and it made her look really good, so I tried the technique i read on here about touching her hair and touching around her head/scalp. She again looked at me with a pleasured look but again so casually that it didn't phase her.
As the place was closing up, we gave each other hugs again and chatted a little and I told her to give me another hug since I won't be seeing her again for awhile and she did lol.
Overall, the outing wasn't too bad but I find that I need to TOUCH more which I did not.. and I feel that when she was talking to me about her future and work, she was the one demonstrating high value and I didn't... She did enjoy me complimenting her which I only did a couple of times, I didn't milk it tho.
This was my first on field experience ever since I started reading and trying to learn all these PUA techniques and may I say the TOUCHING really works haha... you get a few good stares back at you and the women actually do seem to enjoy it. But I am way still a noob and definitely need more practice..
So please help critique my night and give me some tips as for next time I see her again hopefully I can bring it to another level. I think I could try to touch more and stop talking so much to build rapport and go in for seduction... Any feedback is welcome!
Thank you guys for reading my post
