Hallo everyone I´m new in this PUA forum, let me introduce myself: i´m a young italian guy ( sorry for any grammar mistakes), normally good looking, quite self confident but bad with reading signs women give me.
I met this girla HB 9 at a party where I went at together with my wingman buddy.
She was there with a friend visiting the city.
After a quick chat where the convo was quite fluent he 4 of us go home and we f-close all together. Chat of literally maximum 10 min, not more.
After a while I see her again in her hometown together ( I flew with some friends to her coutry as we had planned even before meeting her to go to that city, irony of fate
)again with her friend from the party. They say that they´re planning to go to this party and invited us to meet them there.
At the party again a lot of kino, fluent conversation and this time k-close.
Tried to see her again during my stay in her hometown but that night was the only time could meet her: send her some sms trying to fix a night out again but she either didnt answer or answered later in the morning saying sorry I´ve missed your text bla bla bla..
Since I didnt want to appear needy I stopped writing. The next day I left the country.
5 months later ( during this whole time communication was hold (sometimes not often though via FB and text messages, where she usually wrote me to come see her, i guess to keep my attention towards her vivid) I organized a party in UK and invite her to come since she had recently moved in that own too.
She says she´s really looking forward to come and there she is.
During party again nice fluent convo, everything was smooth.
K-closed at the party, later on F-closed at her place.
Things between us became more intensive as I was planning to move to that city and she asked me if was ok if she became my roommate
(Fortunately I decided to stay in my current city at the end so nothing happened...)12 months later I visit the city again.Before flying I updated my Fb status to see how she would react and as planned, she commented very fast, showing so signs of interest for me arriving there.
During this last stay I tried to fix an appointment with her at least 3 or 4 times and she always answered to my sms vaguely, using a lot the sentence "maybe see you later or I might go elsewhere".
Didnt want to appear needy again so I did some push & pull technique.
But everytime I tought "fuckin it I´m not gonna text her" she texted me first asking where was I or what I was planning for the night.
I always answered with categorical answers, no flirty sms at all, plain, short maybe boring answers.
The last night before I was supposed to fly she textes me again asking me where I was.
Try to fix a meeting but she said that "she was going to a party and that maybe we would see us later?"
The party was supposed to end quite early so knowing when the party should have ended I wrote her that I was with a friend at a bar nearby and if she was still around.
No answer.
Just got an sm only 3 days later, where she apologized by saying that "It was too bad that we couldnt see each other this time"and asked me to "please visit her soon" in her country.
So this time no k- or f-close since we didnt even met once during my visit in town.
Sorry for the long story, I hope Its not too hard to follow.
My question now is: what does this girl want from me??
I´m fully aware that she does have for sure other sex partners around and the same thing is for me, so our " relation" to each other is of pure fuckfriend ( or It used to be at least).
But why would is she investing so much energy in texting so often a guy she met at a party 1.5 years ago in another country?
She potentially might be also interested in my environment and the fact that I´m jetsetting around all the time so she´s attracted by my lifestyle.
Or this is a genuine occasionally distance sexfriendship??
Thank you for any opition/help!!