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Author:  Jason. [ Fri Mar 29, 2013 5:02 am ]
Post subject:  Field Report #1 Owen Chambers

This is my first field report, i was hesitant about actually doing this but i've finally decided to nail this.

Ok, so this started with me going to a friend's apartment in Recoleta, (Buenos Aires). i get there and in the pleace that normally is a pre party heaven, there are just 2 male friends of mine, no music, just watching tv. after a few minutes, more guys come allong, and we start drinking beer and chatting amongst friends.

none of this guys know anything about game and the few times i've tried to introduce a concept in game to them, they rejected it, so i stoped trying. i believe it messes with their ego, they do approach in clubs and they do get successes sometimes anyway.

so we were all guys, and then 3 girls came. the ratio was absolutely lame to be honest: 3 girls and like 10 guys. plus the girls were pretty ugly. a fat chick, an ugly chick, and another girl that wasnt so terrible but had already hooked up with one of the guys in the pre party before.

as people started getting drunk, (i couldnt cuz i was driving) things started to get bizar lol.
like we started to play a card game were if you draw out a J you could make someone do something, and the guys made the fat chick pick up an ice cube with her mouth and pass it on to another guy with her mouth.

it was funny but i was too sober for it and i felt kinda sorry for the fat chick, they were just abusing her low self esteem, like they made the ugly chick put her forehead on the table for the hole game cuz of one of the cards she pulled.

so anyway, at like 3am, maybe 4 we finally left and went to the club. this is when i "woke up" cuz in the preparty i kinda felt like as an expectator of the situation. i didnt want to get involved with those girls to be honest, i wouldnt say i was repused by them, that would be too much, but i did not feel any attraction twords them AT ALL and that kinda killed my vibe to the point where i just disconnected from the now and started texting a girl i fucked recently.

so the club:

i always wear a jason mraz style hat to the club. girls just love it, they open me consistently, and hot girls too. i believe it conveys a non treatening vibe witch i think is essential, as clubs in argentina are filled with "rugby player" drunk as fuck AFCs that just creep the fuck out of girls, its a stereotype, and they are just so fucking insistent bro you dont even know, i've seen the kind of guys who hit on my female friends and in clubs in general and it doesnt take much to outshine them, and im a big guy. (not fat, like wide shoulders and tall, a bit muscular), and im not a rugby player, so i feel like i need to break out of that stereotype.

at first it tooke a hole lot of courage to start wearing it cuz NO ONE uses that kind of hats to the clubs i usually go to.

so as i walk by girls steal the hat from me and im still developing the frace i need to say right after they steal it from me. they do it as im passing by so i have to turn arround and then say something, if any of you have suggestions i would love to hear them!! i just say whatever, like i take it back and say no way! you need to earn this, or sometimes they start to talk to me.

the first girl that does this was a 6, with her friend, and i just took it from her and said the you need to earn this peace. like being playful, i said something like nooo way, nobody messes with my hat!. (all in spanish, i actualy said noooo estas loca! con el gorro no se jode!)

she loved it, i asked them where they knew each other from and they were best friends, so i runned the best friends test on them. they loved it, one girl actually opened the girls set next to us and started running it on this other girls, too bad she was very uncalibrated, like too exited, so i stepped in to explain it, and it looked like i sent her to open them for me so i lost that set.

i staid with this girls a bit more i think and then left.
the thing with the hat opener is that girls just take it whenever and you often loose your friends, like for example say your going to het a dring, and a girl steals your hat, you need to get it back, and my friends kept going do i find myself gaming alone and being lost in the club a lot.

see the continuation in the comments.....

Author:  Jason. [ Fri Mar 29, 2013 5:03 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Field Report #1 Owen Chambers

as i was looking for my friends a HB9 takes my hat, and starts chatting me up. her friends take pictures of us, and i was just getting in a much better mood after that shitty preparty, i was gaming this hb9, and when i isolate her, 2 of my friends pop up UNCALIBRATED AS FUCK!! dude i can not stress enough how uncalibrated this guys where. saying stupid stuff and shit, they looked fucking stupid, and made me look stupid by asosiation i think cuz after they left, that pickup went downhill so fast i didnt even undestand what happened. she left with her friends and promesed to come back. girls often do this, i guess they're dismissing politely, idk.

i was like no youre not, your such a lier, bla bla. i put my hat in her head and kinda left, she left it in, but as i was leaving i was like no way im going to loose this hat if i leave it with her probably, so i toke it back as i was leaving.

i later saw her and had no better idea than to say see? you didnt come back, you broke my heart! (in a playful way, idk i was tierd and drunkish i dont know why i thought it was going to do any good, of couse it lowered my value.)

i saw the first two girls, the two best friends, they were actually called both maggie.

one time i was in the coaches zone with two of the girls from the pre party (the ugly one and the not so bad one who are actually classmates of mine) and the maggies see me and call me. i sat next to them and the one that took my hat before was like bla bla bla so you where picking up those girls hu? bla bla and i was like nah they are just my friends. but they woulndt believe me so i called my friends and asked them to tell them they were just my friends.

telling this story now i realace i fell into it but whatever i wasnt really interested in this girls.

so the blonde one, the one that took my hat, leaves for a moment, and the other one keeps chatting me ip, i end up running the cube on her, i could tell it was acurate, but idk if she was offended, like maybe it was too soon and i didnt have the attraction set in enough, idk, it didnt make her more attracted to me i think.

the blonde comes back and the one i was talking to leaves, and the blonde wants me to run the cube on her too, i escaped that by telling her i waned the other girl to run it on her, when she came back.

i did not feel like doing it all again, and i was not attracted to this girl anyway.

so she complements my style, we chat, i leave, then cross past her again and she calls me up, telling this story idk why i didnt fuck her, like she wasnt that attractive but was fuckable i think, and i had the logistics. only one thing: when she was talking about some dudes that tryed to hit on her, she said "and they tried to pool my shit up!! i have a boyfriend! bla bla" so idk, i would have hit on her but i wasnt really in the zone that night, after that shitty preparty and the hb9 situation.

at like 5 am i decided to leave, and came back home to my parents pleace.

that was pretty much it. i actually was a little sad couse my grandmother is pretty sick and a girl i was flirting HARD with, like girlfriend material, decided to give her family a try. she has a baby and decided to try to work things out with her ex. i intelectually know its better this way, like dating a 19 year old single mother is no joke, and i think she needs to give her family a try, but it still made me a little sad, so that fucked me up for the night.

i felt like posting this cuz posting only your good nights is in my opinion not that useful, you learn a lot from your bad nights, and im going to give this one a thought, try to learn a lot from it.

turn it into a lesson instead of a fail :)

Owen

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