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Follow up to flubbed close night before last: success+tips?
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Author:  Shemhamforash [ Sun Mar 24, 2013 9:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Follow up to flubbed close night before last: success+tips?
Recently I posted about a bungled close with a drunk girl from bar/party. Saw her at bar again last night. Gave her playful shit for ditching me previous night. She responded well, apologized, explains how much her friends liked me. I go in to get a drink after finishing cig and break contact. Try to have more patience and willingness to walk away, let her feel like she's making the first move. She returns to me while I'm ordering my drink, talks and invites me to other bar with her and her friends. I compliance test her by insisting we do shots of actually good whiskey ( rather than the shit she was sharing with me before) before we go, to see if she'll make her friends wait just to entertain me. Check

Go to other bar, see people I met the night before, receive warm welcomes from them let her go talk to girls while I make friends with her guys. Bar is cash only so she buys me a drink to get me back for the shots. Go outside to smoke, drink to much gin from plastic bottle. Abruptly exit scene to throw up over the edge of a garage in private. Sure I'm fucked. Return and one of her other friends insist I follow him so that she will follow us. Return to other bar, meet up with kids from school. Let her run and around and flirt while I catch up and smoke. Continually returns to me and eliminates maximum personal space, so I body rock and she follows. Exit bar with group of people to walk to party. Talk to and walk with different people on the way, she somehow ends up walking with me again reach house, drink smoke, mingle, have intellectual exchange with students, cut it off when the rest of the party seems disinterested. This time she comes to me and goes for the kiss we make out briefly. Part ways, I get stoned with and tested by her AMOG friend, don't let his attitude phase me, remain friendly but tight lipped. Call him on trying to smoke my shit without asking, completely changes his attitude. Continue partying, make out more, suggest we get the fuck out and she agrees while having "one more beer" like 3 times. That was annoying so ignored her talked about philosophy and metal with her and my friends.

Finally we leave, accompanied by her shitfaced gay friend who won't stop hitting on me (obnoxiously and poorley) and cockblocking me. Ignore it, get to car, drive him home, back to my place, bang till after the sun comes up. Smoke, chat about similar taste in tv, pass out watching archer. Get up at 1 in bed while I eat and smoke, drive her home, make light conversation cause we're both exhausted. Drop a few hooks for her to qualify herself, (aspirations, artistic vision, immediate goals) she tells she's working at blah blah blah ok Friday, I cut her off to # close. Probably my biggest mistake. Should have gone with w/e casual meeting she was gonna set up. No kiss goodbye, honestly, not trying to introduce that frame.

Advice thoughts?

Also, how do proceed with #? Considering not doing anything and waiting to meet up by chance as we totally will.
Author:  Glitcher. [ Mon Mar 25, 2013 1:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Follow up to flubbed close night before last: success+ti
From where I see, you are already done man.

You did your work nice, you banged her which is like the Main Objective. She is all over you, its pretty obvious.
The question is what you want to do? A) Fuck her again. B) Keep talking to her but not fucking her. C) Never seeing her again.

Answers: A) Do your shit man, done it one, do it twice.
B) Well, change your strats, dont escaleta with her. ADVISE: Doing this shit will cause you a lot of trouble and pain in the asses
C) Well, dont do shit man.
Author:  Shemhamforash [ Mon Mar 25, 2013 3:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Follow up to flubbed close night before last: success+ti
Quote:
From where I see, you are already done man.

You did your work nice, you banged her which is like the Main Objective. She is all over you, its pretty obvious.
The question is what you want to do? A) Fuck her again. B) Keep talking to her but not fucking her. C) Never seeing her again.

Answers: A) Do your shit man, done it one, do it twice.
B) Well, change your strats, dont escaleta with her. ADVISE: Doing this shit will cause you a lot of trouble and pain in the asses
C) Well, dont do shit man.
Good question man, thanks for reminding me to think about what I want. I frequently get ahead of myself once I'm "in" and end up trying to hard to lock someone down without even considering. In this case a friends with benefits thing would be ideal; she's chill and has a good body, parties hard, but not hot enough to be a potential gf. I txted her and just said whatsup so she had my number. I'll wait until I see her at the bar this weekend and repeat the same scenario. Thanks for the tip; my ego gets in the way of my game frequently and leads to act bold and forward when a little mystery, space, and nothing would work better. Narcissism is a personality flaw for me so I have to watch out for her and her friends fluffing my ego. Gotta remember not to draw self esteem from women I sleep with, know I'm the shit just for who I am, and stay humble in my soul, and let my extra sexual accomplishments and qualities speak for themselves. It's tough when I've been raised to believe I always have to make the first move and get laid in order to be a man. Gotta detach my ego and game Tom that shit and find a balance between confidence and patience
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