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Author:  .Sage. [ Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Journal:Syx
An comments/suggestions on my current game or last field test would be appreciated.

I'll start off two days ago, where I feel that I'd had made the most progress i've ever made. Nothing went as planned, however.

A little information to start off this Journal. I'm 18, black and skinny. I stand about 6"2 and i'm told i'll get taller. My face still hasn't lost it's "Young" look, and the only facial hair I can grow is medium ammounts of peach fuzz on my upper lip, and a thin wispy ammount of hair on my chin.

Pathetic lol, but you work with what you have~

I realized about a day ago (After meditating on the teachings i've learned through PUA) that my ambition to become a MPUA comes from my dad, who was a womanizer that caused my parents to be divorced. I realized more than anything, I wanted to be better than my father and still have a successful life, but my own way. And I suspect, because my grandfather died when my father was 4, My dad felt the same way too when he was young.

So you could say pick up runs in my blood.

Anyways on to the Day/night. Like i said im 18, I don't have my own place, I don't have a car, for all intents and purposes I don't have a life. I stay with a friend whos family im really close with. my friend is my unwilling wing and he's still in highschool. I don't rely on him much because he doesn't have the same drive as me but he can be useful at time.

So I get dressed up in my casual style that I feel suits me, then I head out. My plan was first to get some money in my wallet for the day because I was broke (Went snowboarding in WV a couple of weeks before, broke the bank on that trip) So i walk to my local bank and withdraw $21 dollars, enough for a $15 dollar haircut and some food.

I walk over to the mall next (The mall is about 2 miles from where I stay, I usually take the bus but I felt like walking) to get my haircut and do a bit of sarging afterwards. While im waiting at the barber, my highschool bro/wing hits me up and asks where I was. I tell him i'm at the mall and he should come and wing with me. He complains a bit but ends up showing up. Before he arrived though I had hopped to get at least a warm-up approach in but I didn't see the kind of girls i wanted to approach alone, and I wasn't confident in opening sets in the day yet.

So just before I see my wing I spot this HB walking with two guys. I knew that my wing knew one of the guys walking on a first name basis. So when my wing arrived I told him the plan of how we would meet up in front of the group, and then my wing would start talking to the guy he knew ("Hey don't I know you from somewhere") While I talk to the girl.

However, my wing bitched about how he didn't know the guy that well and would go along with it if he knew the guy more. The guy is absolutely useless, and i didn't tell him that officially he was no longer my wing but my walking excuse for me to be at the mall.

Later on we were walking around looking for targets to game when I notice this HB who's working in a clothing store. I alert my "wing" and he tells me shes not hot enough, and I doubt myself for a moment before thinking "No, im going to game that target even if she isn't hot" So I walk directly towards her making strong eye contact. Normally, my game is very direct, Indirect openers ARE my situational openers, I only use them when I don't see direct working out for me.

SO when I come face to face with the girl I realize that I actually knew her from before (It's a girl that I had been teetering on the LJBF line for a while)With this stunt, I was pretty sure I was FZed because even though it was bold, it was too direct for a girl I'd already had met. But anyways I talk to her about her job fluff talk fluff talk but I don't stack any routines because she's working, I just get her number and eject(I know i'm supposed to stick around after getting a number but that one was a lost cause, only good for a warm up)

So me and my wing started walking again, the next girl we spot walking briskly towards us. This was by far my worst approach of the night, Ill go step by step what happened:

Me & Wing Walking slowly and checking for targets.

We find one walking briskly towards us.

I initiate conversation my stopping her from moving (Mistake 1[Shes moving in the opposite direction of me] & Mistake 2)

Syx: Uhm, excuse me, sorry if i'm bothering you but I saw you walking and I had to introduce myself

(Mistake 3 ["Excuse me"] & Mistake 4 ["Sorry if i'm bothering you"])

HB: *Nods her head, eyes wide and caught completely off guard*

Syx: *I put my hand out* Hi, my name is Danny.

HB: *She keeps her arms crossed as they were when we approached, ignoring my hand* Carla

Syx: *With a Smile on my face I slowly put my hand down, readin her facial expressions and body language* Are you busy?

HB: Very

Syx: Aww, well it was nice meeting you.

HB: You too.

After she walks off my wing tells me what I did wrong (He was just standing there the entire time watching me initiate conversation) I constantly bounce my ideas off him, he's a good kid but he doesn't really understand the science behind PU.

(LAter on we would see HB carla all over the Mall, not as busy as she had said. but I wouldn't let it discourage me, in fact if it wasn't for my next approach I probably would have tried again like a chump)

My next approach was the best but also the weirdest. Me and my wing are just walking again searching for targets when we see this cute, emo looking girl (I have a thing for emo girls, and a crayola/anime hair fetish), we let her walk past us *I caught a bit of eye contact though* and a second after both me and my wing agreed that she was hot. So I whipped around and caught up to her, moving in front of her and eventually stopping her. I begun my game on her:

Syx: Uhm excuse me(I knew sorry was a mistake, but I later realized excuse me can be almost as bad), hey I saw you walking and I thought you're adorable. I had to come introduce myself. My name is Danny. What's your name?

HB: Amy *Me and her shake hands*

Syx: Ah I love that name. Well Amy this is James (I point to my wing and they shake hands)

Syx: Amy I actually have a problem and I was wondering if you could help me with it.

HB: *Skeptical eyes* well what is it...?

Syx: Don't worry it's nothing like that haha. I have this friend named cody, real cool guy and one of my best friends. He lives in florida. So we get to talking and we're at that point where one of us has to go and meet the other, He wants me to come to miami, and I want him to come to charlotte. Problem with that is, compared to miami with all the beaches, the parties, the hot girls, Charlotte has got to be the most boring city in the world to my friend Cody.

HB: Haha

Syx: So I made a bet with him, that I could go out and meet more random cute chicks in charlotte than he could in miami and get them to take pictures with me. And whoever has the most pics wins, and the loser has to travel to the winners city.

HB: I see haha

Syx: I need you to help me win this bet, take a picture with me?

HB: Sure

I set up my phone and hand it to my wing to take the picture (Again he was just standing there the whole time watching the conversation take place like he usually does, like my own personal tape recorder. If I don't have a wing to take the picture, I stop some random guy and DHV myself by asking him to take a picture of me and this cute girl.)

I tell her to try and do anything that will make Cody jealous while I put my hand around her waist. (I used to put it around their shoulders but my arms are too long and it looks awkward.) my wing takes the picture and I realize this is the weakest part of this routine, stacking into another routine from here. But I wasn't going to let it go just yet.

I tell my wing to bring over the picture so we can look at it. It looked great and I saved it before asking the HB if she was going somewhere. She said not in particular so I laughed and said "neither are we" So she asks us if we wanted to hang out with her. Both me and my wing agreed, since this was a first. We walked around the mall getting to know her a little better before I felt that I was wasting my time when I should be sarging

(I didn't know what it meant to bounce a girl and I wasn't really comfortable with the whole two man one girl hang out thing, even if the guy was my wing and the girl was cute.) So I grab her number and tell them I have to go and do something personal (Go hit on more HBs!) When they ask me what I have to go and do I say it's a secret and im very mysterious. HBAmy seemed to like that and I gave her a hug before walking off.

(End of Part 1)
Author:  .Sage. [ Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Journal:Syx
(Part 2)

Earlier while I was walking with HBAmy and my wing, I walked by this Abercrombie store and saw a cute HB8 model standing there. I was feeling good so I decided to take the challenge, but I had to ditch Amy and my wing James. So after I hugged Amy I walked to the Abercrombie store and opened the model that was folding clothes in front of the store.

Syx: Hey I was walking with my friends and I saw you standing over here and thought "Wow she looks bored" So I came to introduce myself. Hi my name is Danny.

HB: Haha hi im julia (We shake hands, but I peck in because I couldn't hear her name and I have her repeat it once or twice more.[A mistake and a regular sticking point of mine. I don't listen well enough.])

Syx: Well Julia I actually have a problem and I need your help with it....

HB: Ok what is it?

I tell her the story of my friend Cody and the bet we made. She starts to get really shy and bashful when she realizes what I was asking. She even pointed me in the direction of two other cute girls further in the store which I assumed was a IOD. In the end she refused the picture, which I assumed was another IOD and asked her one more time (I might have even said please...god I hope not) before saying:

"Come on are you that bashful? Your boyfriend must get really jealous"

HBJulia: "Yeah he does.."

after that she went back to her table where she was. I knew that was the universal "Stop bothering me" IOD and I told her it was nice meeting her, leaving to go back to my wing.

Whether or not she really had a boyfriend is up in the air, but my problem I think was my opener. Had I just used a reg opener and stacked into a reg routine It might have gone more smoothly and I might have held her attention better. Especially when it comes to an HB that's really used to guys hitting on them.
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