PUA Forum :: Going to clubs alone

Here is some tips for solo sarging in the night time:

1. Always go early; be part of the early bird crowd. By getting into the club early, you can start socializing right away. Since there is not many people, it will be easier to talk with people inside the venue. Less distractions, etc. They got no one else to talk to. As you make friends inside the venue, you can return to them later in the evening to hang out. Some clubs if you go early, they waive the cover charge and provide half price on drinks....

2. Talk to bartenders when they are not busy. Chit Chat.

3. If you think a bouncer is cool, shake his hand.

4. Do not sit around like a "wall flower"; at least not early on. It makes you look like a "loser" and it will not do much for your state/energy.

5. Chill at the bar counter if there is no one to open yet. Make it your home base to relax.

6. Solo Sarging requires you to have a certain amount of energy. If you are naturally a high energy person, you are not going have any problems. Low energy guys..you guys need to be excited when you walk into the venue. Do something to pump that energy up...do jumping jacks or something.

7. Making a venue a regular spot is helpful b/c you can warm up to the bartenders and bouncers and later on, they provide social proof and protection(if you ever get into a confrontation).

8. Open All girls in the beginning of the evening. It gets your mouth moving and warms up your conversation skills.

9. Dance even if it is by yourself. Just sway to the music..unless you have no rhythm...I usually sway even while at the bar counter...it creates energy around you and you will notice the cool girls near you will do the same. Energy is transferrable.

10. Only go out if you are in a good mood. It is hard enough going out by yourself...So you are not in a good mood when you walk out that door to go to a club...maybe consider chilling at home. Having a good mood and attitude from the get go is important.

11. You are going out with "Intent"..not just to socialized....but to pull a girl...some nights you will have so much fun socializing that you forget you are there to meet someone you find attractive and take her home to meet your mom.

I will update; but for now, that is some general guidelines for solo sarging at night.

Author:	indianInSweden [ Sat Feb 16, 2013 3:24 pm ]
Post subject:	Going to clubs alone
Hey guys. I am someone who is still trying to work on his confidence and starting conversations with women at clubs. I am planning to make efforts to get over this fear. So, I would like your advice on going out to clubs alone. Firstly, Is this a weird thing to do? And if it's all right, will I be taking a bigger step than I should?

Author:	xZEROx [ Sat Feb 16, 2013 8:27 pm ]
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It is not weird, any notion of things being weird/awkward is all in your own perception of the world i.e. it is all in your head. From my own experience it is harder than going out with other people, also more brutal in a way, no one to wallow back to after blow outs. However, it will toughen you up and it is a fast track to learning. I've heard from some experienced guys they even prefer it. If you are completely new, I would advise going out with your friends, or finding a wing online, this will ease your introduction. But, if that can't be done, fuck go out alone and brave the storm, you will thank yourself later as most guys will never have the balls to do this.

Author:	Silver` [ Sat Feb 16, 2013 8:51 pm ]
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Got this from stray cat on another forum Quote: Here is some tips for solo sarging in the night time: 1. Always go early; be part of the early bird crowd. By getting into the club early, you can start socializing right away. Since there is not many people, it will be easier to talk with people inside the venue. Less distractions, etc. They got no one else to talk to. As you make friends inside the venue, you can return to them later in the evening to hang out. Some clubs if you go early, they waive the cover charge and provide half price on drinks.... 2. Talk to bartenders when they are not busy. Chit Chat. 3. If you think a bouncer is cool, shake his hand. 4. Do not sit around like a "wall flower"; at least not early on. It makes you look like a "loser" and it will not do much for your state/energy. 5. Chill at the bar counter if there is no one to open yet. Make it your home base to relax. 6. Solo Sarging requires you to have a certain amount of energy. If you are naturally a high energy person, you are not going have any problems. Low energy guys..you guys need to be excited when you walk into the venue. Do something to pump that energy up...do jumping jacks or something. 7. Making a venue a regular spot is helpful b/c you can warm up to the bartenders and bouncers and later on, they provide social proof and protection(if you ever get into a confrontation). 8. Open All girls in the beginning of the evening. It gets your mouth moving and warms up your conversation skills. 9. Dance even if it is by yourself. Just sway to the music..unless you have no rhythm...I usually sway even while at the bar counter...it creates energy around you and you will notice the cool girls near you will do the same. Energy is transferrable. 10. Only go out if you are in a good mood. It is hard enough going out by yourself...So you are not in a good mood when you walk out that door to go to a club...maybe consider chilling at home. Having a good mood and attitude from the get go is important. 11. You are going out with "Intent"..not just to socialized....but to pull a girl...some nights you will have so much fun socializing that you forget you are there to meet someone you find attractive and take her home to meet your mom. I will update; but for now, that is some general guidelines for solo sarging at night.

Author:	Robert Fernando [ Sat Feb 16, 2013 9:44 pm ]
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Go to bars for now. Club game can be done alone, but it's all about keeping your energy levels up because club game can be more draining than other sorts of game due to the more aggressive dynamic. You can pick up hot chicks in bars, in fact you're probably more likely to succeed. Peace, R

Author:	masculine-life.com [ Sat Feb 16, 2013 10:45 pm ]
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Hi, I think going out alone is one of the hardest things you can do. It needs a lot of confidence and willpower, bt it can boost your game too. Furthermore, it means freedom. You don't depend on anyone, you can go out when you want and where you want. I've been out alone a lot in the last time and get pretty amazing results. But I'm in the game for over two years, hitting hard. The 're two big hurdles when going aout alone: 1. Leaving the damn house 2. Approaching once you're in the venue I've just written an article about going out alone. You find on my blog (it has no commercial background): masculine-life[dot]com cheers and have fun!

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Author:	indianInSweden [ Sat Feb 16, 2013 11:00 pm ]
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Hey guys. Thanks for the replies. I'm very pleased to see so many people willing to help. All your advice seems Very positive and promising and ill put them to good use.

Author:	xZEROx [ Sun Feb 17, 2013 12:47 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Going to clubs alone
Personally I would not fill my head with a bunch of irrelevant, non-unique, impersonal tips. Forget about 'energy levels' and 'aggressive dynamics' for now, mental masturbation 101. The last guy is spot on.

Author:	Shadow522 [ Sun Feb 17, 2013 2:38 pm ]
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Its only weird if you think its weird. People sense that so get comfortable in your solo outing and itll just come off natural. Hes right, it really does just come down to those two points but to be fair the other tips mentioned will greatlt help your game by creating home field advantage. Try to socialize on the line outside so you have some familiar faces when you enter too,

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