I work as a male gogo dancer, dancing for mixed crowds. For some reason I'm not quite sure of, I get approached by females more than any of the other dancers. However, the social dynamics are different as a dancer than a regular club goer. Females will flirt with you without the intention of actually wanting to hook-up or a relationship. They often just want to have fun and push the boundaries with the dancers.

Anyway, this girl was flirting with me, she seemed especially interested and receptive to my touching, so when my break came, I went up to her and started grinding with her, then I pushed her onto a couch and gave her a lap dance.

I left her to go to my dressing room and get prepped for my next set, after my next set I gave her another lap dance and started talking to her more. I told her to tell me some personal things about herself and asked her, "what's the kinkiest thing you've ever done?". She said that she made out with a girl in a bathroom. "That's it!? I need to corrupt you. Have you ever done anything with a guy in a bathroom?" She replied, "No, but I want to."

So I took her to the bathroom and started making out with her. Then I brought my face down to her crouch and was going to pull off her pants and panties and give her oral, but that's when she stopped me. She told me she was on her period!!! I said she should go down on me then, and I'll return the favor another time, but she wouldn't do it.

It's a wonder why she'd go to the bathroom with me in the first place if she knew she was on her period. One possibility is that she had second-thoughts and started to feel shame. Before we left the bathroom I even said, "I know a lot of girls feel ashamed to get too sexual too soon, I hope you don't feel that way." She assured me that she didn't, and I congratulated her for that. But still, as House says, "everybody lies", so I'm not sure what to believe.

What are the pros and cons of this event? What could I have done to have made this whole vignette smoother? I wonder if I should have started taking her panties off as soon as we stepped in the bathroom before she had time to think, but I'm not sure, I'm curious to see what others think.