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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Sat Dec 29, 2012 11:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Mr. A's Journal |
I have finally decided to get organized and get my shit in order to get this whole PUA/and my life in order. Getting success here and there was fun but I want to be more consistent and more observant. So feel free, you, the forum to critique me and the criticism will be taken into consideration without ill. Thanks. Goals: Get some more style Hit the gym religiously and lose a few pounds and pack on a bit of muscle Meet and connect with new people Find out what I want to do after college Overcome my insecurities Seduce and love women Those are my current goals for now. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Sat Dec 29, 2012 12:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Mr. A's Journal |
Day 1. Today I decided to go out and game alone because I wanted to poke my comfort zone and keep that little bubble burst. So, I went down to a bar that is famous for their cheap drinks and free hot dogs. I have gamed the bartenders and they know me by face so good hunting ground so far. Anyway, back to PUA. So, I still have a little anxiety and I am aware that the insecurities pop up like pimples and bug the shit out of me still. This is one area that I really have to get rid of because I know if it is taken care of, alot of my other problems would probably vanish. Turning Point in the Night I honestly did not like any of the girls there. If I did game them, it would probably won't go too well since I would just be talking to them out of just talking to them. Fortunately, I met a guy who was pretty well socially calibrated. Later I would find out that this man was gay, but he was actually pretty cool. I recommend if possible, that you guys befriend one gay guy...and I will tell you why later in the report. So, I was genuinely having a great conversation with the guy and he introduced me to his group of friends. Eventually we all attracted a decent of people and a 4 group became a 8 group. Unfortunately, there was only one girl and 4 afc guy were dowsing her in attention which she happy ate up. I just went on and talked to the gay guy and told him about my aspirations as a PUA. He was supportive. I asked him if he saw any cute girls and he admitted no and I asked where I would find them and that simple question is how I moved new found social group to another bar. Boom. Keep in mind that I talked to these people for at least 20 minutes before asking them to take me somewhere else (because I don't frequent bars in that area so I didn't know where else to go) and they were more than happy to show me a good time. Bars with the Honeys The benefits of my new gay friend: He critiqued me when I asked for critique and he was pretty skilled at people watching and opened my eyes to such a valuable trait. Once we stepped into that bar he pointed out the girls who gave IOI's and asked me what my strategy was. We spotted two latinas dancing in the bar and they were pretty cute. My new unlikely wingman opened them without hesitation and I was just watching the spectacle as to how well this man carried himself. It was a shame he was gay truly, the girls were receptive of him and I and one of the girls started to take off my coat while the other justified her actions. I was not planning to get laid tonight. Not at all, because I just wanted to overcome the remaining anxiety/generate attraction and be able to connect with people. I will take care of pulling and closing after I perfect these stages. Anyway, I hesitated a little bit because my wing decided to let me choose and go up to talk to them. He helped me out this much so I obliged. I had to wait a little because some afc's came out of nowhere to chat these girls up. I wasn't bummed out at all and actually felt intrigued at how these girls dismissed these men left and right. I like people watching. However, one persistent chump wouldn't go away...so I decided to step in. Boom. Started gaming. Gaming I don't remember the full dialog but basically I chatted her up about where she was from, some crap about her age, and then we started tooling on the chump that would not go away and who started getting aggressive with her friend, blah blah blah. and finally I got down to business. She complimented me about my teeth and like a button pushed, my cocky funny came out. She loved it. I used on of Jay Wa's kiss routines the "What would you say after I kissed you" to which she was hesitant and shit tested me but I knew that we were going to kiss so I gave her the look as to say "girl please". Rest is history. Oh and my wingman was dancing with the other latina and taking care of her for me but unfortunately for her she found he was gay during their conversation to which the latina looked disappointed. Like I said, a damn shame. AFTERMATH So the girl who i kiss closed is only in the country for another week and i decided to not get her number because I know I will get another girl if I wanted to. No rush and abundance mentality is starting to kick in. I found an unlikely wingman in the form of a gay man (he is a black gay man who is mistaken for straight!) so I predict good outings from now on. He was watching me and the latina and he commented on how my body language was not needy and how it seemed like the girl and I really vibed with one another. We went to Mcdonalds after and I was feeling so motherfucking confident in my ability to connect with people that other people felt it and were captivated by it. I knew I could handle anything and I got eye raped by a few girls in there. One girl I decided to fool around with and mess with her giving her a wink and being sexual. All she could was watch me since she was with a group of friends and it was fun for me to see how turned on she was getting lol. Oh well. At least I know I can get shit done if I have to. So this was my DAY 1. Thanks for reading! P.S. GUYS PLEASE PEOPLE WATCH. IT IS VALUABLE AND IT WILL BRING YOU AWARENESS |
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