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Author:  Zeus101 [ Sun Dec 23, 2012 5:32 pm ]
Post subject:  FR: Nevermind the boyfriend..

So I've come home from University for christmas, and thought id try out some routines and investigate different methods with the girls back home. There is this HB (8/10), who i've heard about through friends as an absolute goddess in the bedroom so I thought it was worth an effort. Although I haven't spoken to her personally before, i'd seen her about. I decided the easiest way to start things would be over facebook message (without trying to be too creepy) as I knew the chances of me seeing her out are slim.. so I thought a standard opener wouldn't be as effective online as it would in real life so I took a more subtle approach of saying how I knew who she was and asking if she was out in town on the weekend (as me and a group of my mates were going out) and that we should hang out if bumped into each other out. the next is a copy of the exact dialogue that went on:

HB: You don't even know what I look like haha

Me: yeah but you are finding me, so i dont need to know :) and you cant miss me, ill be the tallest guy out (trying to show authority here telling her she is going to come looking for me, not the other way round)

HB: I don't know what you look like either haha

Me: well im 6 ft 7, so it wont be hard

HB: Fuck I'm 5 ft 3 lol

Me: haha tinyy aww ;) another reason why its easier for you to find me than other way round!

HB: Haja

Me: who you going with?

HB: A few of my friends xxx (taking this as an IOI, putting kisses now after each reply)

Me: cutee, are they all as tiny as you? ;) x (throwing in a neg here mocking her about her height, whilst also only putting one kiss, not letting her think she has the power to influence how many kisses I put, to which she responds with only putting one kiss, a sign that I'm in control)

HB: Haha nope a little taller! X

Me: you going out with your boyfriend? x (i dont know if she has a boyfriend, but this is a subtle way of finding out, and she does have one.. but that wont stop me)

HB: No x

Me: ah thats alright then x

HB: Haha x

I then continue with a game I learnt from the PUA Style (whose book 'The Game' got me into all this). Which is the betting game in which you ask them 5 questions, to win they have to get them all wrong (can be found on youtube).. After getting through 2 questions I receive a message from her boyfriend telling me to stop trying it on with his girlfriend (this guy is a classic AMOG). I reply not aggressively (although from looking at his pictures i would easily win in a fight), but with witty comments, in that im not interested in her, just talking (knowing they are obviously sitting next to each other so she will be reading). I continue to out wit him, showing dominance over him infront of her, i then message her with:

Me: haha its cool mate, we can stop playing, i see your boyfriend controls what you do. not my style personally but know plenty of people who do that :) may see you out sat x

HB: I'm not controlled I'm my own person xx (the exact response i was looking for, triggering the thought that she is being controlled is just going to make her want to do some rebellious even more)

Me: okay chickk. well dont feel like you cant say hi on sat if you see me, if you are allowed xx

HB: Haha x

All this was on Wednesday. I didnt want to be desperate so left it there, and then received a message on saturday morning with her giving me her number saying let her know when i'm out.. All i replied with was 'okay sure, if you're lucky x'. It was needless to say that i text her when i was a few minutes away from the club saying i was here, with her almost instantly replying that she was going to come find me. I met her about 10 minutes into being inside, and after another 15 minutes i had her sat down on a quiet coach area.. and we were making out whilst she was rubbing my crotch from over my trousers. I left after a while saying i should go find my friends but that i had fun, leaving her with a cheeky wink!

Hope my first field report is up to scratch and that you enjoy! please feel free to leave any comments or feedback be it positive or negative :)

Author:  ants3940 [ Mon Dec 24, 2012 1:25 am ]
Post subject:  Re: FR: Nevermind the boyfriend..

great field report and nice work. sounds to me though that you missed out, i'm not sure why you left when you pulled her. of course it's important not to look needy, but you shot yourself in the foot...

Author:  Zeus101 [ Mon Dec 24, 2012 12:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: FR: Nevermind the boyfriend..

Quote:
great field report and nice work. sounds to me though that you missed out, i'm not sure why you left when you pulled her. of course it's important not to look needy, but you shot yourself in the foot...
Thanks man. Obviously i didnt want to leave, but being back home from Uni and all, its hard to bring a girl home as i dont have my own place anymore, making it awkward =/

Author:  ants3940 [ Fri Dec 28, 2012 2:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: FR: Nevermind the boyfriend..

yeh but you didn't have to leave her when you had her all over you. and she coulda taken you to hers?

Author:  Zeus101 [ Fri Dec 28, 2012 4:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: FR: Nevermind the boyfriend..

True, i guess i was taking a risk. I dont like to give a girl everything at the first opportunity. I like to give them a taster, then pull back - the classic 2 steps forward 1 step back technique. So hoped here that by doing this, then walking away, id constantly be on her mind and she would come looking for me later for more. I was just unlucky that she got chucked out the club as her boyfriend came out and started a fight, otherwise i would have met up later to try and go back to hers

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