Sup, new to the forum.
I'm 19, i'm a fun social guy, huge social circle with lot's of friends.
I probably have more confidence than a lot of new members, but like most people I sometimes bottle it when it comes to approaching women, so i'm here to brush up my skills, I feel this report may help me.
I want to be able to pick up any girl, any time.
I'll start the report with my antics from Friday night (the second last time I went out)
Day 1-HB8.5
Good night with all my mates from my hometown. Was the first time i've seen them in quite a while which resulted in lots of drinks.
I don't smoke, but I enjoy the banter in the smokers area, and it's cool to chill and have a rest from the clubbing scene.
I see my mate chatting to two girls, he is similar to me, except I have much better game...But he will go through so many girls in a night he always seems to bang though, where as I have less success because I will only go for girls I genuinely like.
Anyway, I go over to them, and it's a bit of a blur tbh, however I then realized who I was talking to, a girl who worked at the same place I did last year. She left a few weeks after I joined, and because of the way the place was set up, I never used to speak to her.
"I know who you are!"
She looked confused
"Is your name _? I used to work at _"
She was surprised and interested and asked about it, I told her I worked there as she was leaving, I told her I never spoke to her because I got told she could not speak any English (I worked at a place where 40/50 staff).
She explained how offended she was, but the words she was saying were not displayed in the body language, by this time I had taken her away from her friend just so slightly to the side, and we are now talking against the wall.
I can't remember exactly what we said at this point, but we spoke for the next few minutes...I then went in for the kiss when we were looking at each other very closely and she was smiling. She pulled away flirtatiously and explained she was offended and therefore couldn't kiss me. I asked how I could make up for it and she lent in again, I kissed her a bit longer and then I pulled away and explained my other friends were leaving the club (they weren't...was a bit awkward when I seen her later on, lol.)
Assertively said to her that I have no battery on my phone, but I want her to text me. So I gave her my number.
******(00:24): ****** *lips emoticon*
pxxxl(13:50): Hope I didn't offend you too much last night
x******(14:00): I guess I can cope with that
******(21:06): Hey what are you up to?
pxxxl(21:10): I'm at a party, going to town soon. What about you? xx
******(21:57): yeah, me too x
pxxxl(22:09): Where are you going? You might bump into me x
pxxxl(18:19): Couldn't see you last night! Kept an eye out for you!
That was the last text which was now 4 days ago. Do I send another one? Could I have handled this any better?
