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Author:  cloverchips [ Sun Dec 16, 2012 1:25 pm ]
Post subject:  First Time Pickup, ended with failure?

Okay, so this just started as a dare with my friends, I get to talk to the girl, and they would go and buy me a drink. Actually, I was eyeing this lone girl, HB 7(just an estimate, maybe I had beer goggles).
At first, I thought she was just waiting for someone. There were several pickup attempts with the girl(seeing as she is alone in the bar) by some other guys.

I tried the friendly approach, I actually told her about the dare and asked for her help, and she just smiled and said, "I think I know whats gonna happen, okay, you won the dare!"
I just followed up with, "Yeah, thanks! I'm sorry for the interruption, why are you alone drinking?" (thinking that it was unusual for a girl to drink alone in our area)

And what followed was what I think was good conversation flow.

She invited me to go to some concert, and I got a number close.

Okay, so we were about to go out the bar(me and the girl) because she was going back to her office to meet her friend(she was off that day,night shift)

I actually insisted to go with her to the office(gentleman approach), and actually there is a bus station near her office, so thats hitting two birds in one stone.

Actually, I knew she liked me, the number close, we actually held hands while we were walking to her office.
I bid goodbye when we arrived there and I actually hinted for a kiss( I said, okay, goodbye and just looked at her).
She went to me, and gave me a kiss. and she said to dont forget to send her a message.
I actually saw her skipped her way towards the building!(Happy? looks like it)

Anyways, this was the bad part:
I didn't gave her a text till the next day afternoon.
4 hours had passed, no reply. So I decided to call her, the phone was turned off. The next day, I tried to call again, still the phone was off. So I decided to look for her name in Facebook, no girl with that name that looked like her.

Next day, still I tried, still turned off. That's when I decided, I think I got gamed... Fake identity? Fake number? Hahaha... Nice...

The question is, Is that genuine IOI?(kiss close, number close, kino)
Did she meant to use fake identity(cant confirm, its hard to find her name) and fake number?(or mistakenly input the wrong number).
Lessons learned: NEVER forget to ring her phone, just in case.

Author:  officialpoypoy [ Tue Dec 18, 2012 4:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: First Time Pickup, ended with failure?

i think you won

if she wasnt attracted to you i doubt she wud kiss you cuz i know i sure wont kiss anyone im not attracted to.

good job man for a first time pickup cuz most guys wud never get that far for the first time, ur either very lucky or very charming for a begginer :) u got a good start, keep practicing

Author:  cloverchips [ Tue Dec 18, 2012 12:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: First Time Pickup, ended with failure?

Quote:
i think you won

if she wasnt attracted to you i doubt she wud kiss you cuz i know i sure wont kiss anyone im not attracted to.

good job man for a first time pickup cuz most guys wud never get that far for the first time, ur either very lucky or very charming for a begginer :) u got a good start, keep practicing
Thanks. The main benefit was the boost on ego. Big help. Really. (I never had the guts to do these kind of things, it's like a lifetime achievement award. Addictive. Haha!)
Update: She got the number wrong, the last number, typed 0 instead of 8. Lol!.

Anyway, wish I won't screw up with her. I think it's harder with the follow through.

Author:  Zeus101 [ Sun Dec 23, 2012 7:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: First Time Pickup, ended with failure?

I agree, probably just a mistake with the number on her behalf? She seemed keen from what you have described and had no reason to fake name you. Don't let it get at you though, for a first time that's impressive, keep it up

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