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Author:  ceejay7 [ Sat Nov 24, 2012 12:31 am ]
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Hey everyone and thanks for dropping by.

How it began?

It started about 1 year ago, when i was at schoolies (sort of like spring break i think), it was the last night and i had gotten nothing that night. My friend and i had just left the club around 6am and went to get food at the local Kebab store when this guy who also was getting food stared at me and said something along the lines of "i can get any girl" and i kind of thought to myself yea right! "The next girl that comes past ill pick her up and pass her onto you" i was like "okay, sounds good". Funnily enough no girls had come past and so we got talking and i asked him what he did for a living and he said "i teach guys to pick up chicks" and by this time my friend and i were leaving so i didn't get to question this further.We said our goodbyes and as i had turned my back to walk off he kind of yelled "pua. Look it up, it'll change your life". And, thats exactly what i did, however, not until 10months later (being 2 months ago).

Who am i?

I'm 19 years old and live in Australia. I'm currently studying and working part-time. i've decided to embark on this transformation not only with women but with myself. Ive always been the shy one and approaching/talking to women never even occurred to me until about two months ago. I'm considered a good talker, listener and easy to get along with. In terms of picking up, i haven't really 'earned' any lays, they have been all 'lucky' drunk ones. This is what i want to change for now. Night game will be primary but i do wish to start day game once i get more comfortable with this whole thing. I've taken a strong liking to Daniel Balboas methods/form and i'll adopt that kind of mindset.

I'll try and update this everyday, and i do appreciate criticism/comments/etc.. so i can improve. Thanks :)
Author:  ceejay7 [ Sun Nov 25, 2012 11:06 am ]
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Saturday 24/11/12

Too many missed opportunities tonight. My friend and i went to a local bar and for a couple of 'chilled drinks'. When we got there, there was literally 5 people there as it was really early. The first opportunity was in the smoking area. She had asked my friend for a lighter and we began talking to her mostly fluff. I started vamping things up sexually with body language and conversation e.g. she had her nails done and i made a comment along the lines of "do you scratch with those", however, nothing came of it. We bounced to another bar and as i was i was waiting for a drink at the bar this tall sexy brunette grabs my arm and starts dancing with me. The weird thing was everytime i tried to talk to her she'd pull away. After about 3 attempts to try and talk to her i began being unresponsive to her attempts to dance. She persisted for about two minutes and walked off.

Thoughts

Quite a disappointing day for me, i feel as though i didnt push hard enough let alone push at all nor did i attempt enough women. No new prospects however i do wish to have a phone number (to say the least) by the end of next week
Author:  Daniel Balboa [ Fri Nov 30, 2012 9:04 am ]
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Saturday 24/11/12

Too many missed opportunities tonight. My friend and i went to a local bar and for a couple of 'chilled drinks'. When we got there, there was literally 5 people there as it was really early. The first opportunity was in the smoking area. She had asked my friend for a lighter and we began talking to her mostly fluff. I started vamping things up sexually with body language and conversation e.g. she had her nails done and i made a comment along the lines of "do you scratch with those", however, nothing came of it. We bounced to another bar and as i was i was waiting for a drink at the bar this tall sexy brunette grabs my arm and starts dancing with me. The weird thing was everytime i tried to talk to her she'd pull away. After about 3 attempts to try and talk to her i began being unresponsive to her attempts to dance. She persisted for about two minutes and walked off.

Thoughts

Quite a disappointing day for me, i feel as though i didnt push hard enough let alone push at all nor did i attempt enough women. No new prospects however i do wish to have a phone number (to say the least) by the end of next week
Girls sometimes do crap like that just for attention. But its also possible she was into you and you just misplayed it. I would have grabbed her, pulled her into me very assertively (i.e. not like a pansy) and put my mouth right up to her ear and said something along the lines of "You better stop grinding on me like that or I might not be able to behave myself for very long. And then...[Pause, smell her deeply]...who knows what I'll do... [smell her again, pull her closer, etc...] OK, that's enough [push her off]."

You do that and it'll sort out what she wants really quick. She'll either scurry off or start heavily pursuing you.
Author:  ceejay7 [ Thu Dec 06, 2012 1:46 am ]
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Yea that kind of aggressiveness is what i need, thanks matey for the hint :)
Author:  ceejay7 [ Thu Dec 06, 2012 2:18 am ]
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I think i have a bit of catching up. The past week has been crazy i've been extremely busy with uni work and shit but now that i'm on holidays its going to be great.

Half-earned hook-up: Thursday 29th November 2012

Started the day pretty fast as it was my first day on holidays, called a mate i hadn't seen in a while and went down to the beach for an awesome swim sesh (summer has just started here). I thought this would be a great opportunity to practice some day game. However, it just came to my knowledge that my friend who use to live 5mins away from a hotspot beach had moved to another area. Was kind of a shock as he loved that place, anyway, i knew the beach near his new place was a dead-zone however, i was still keen on trying. When we got there everything had lived up to my expectation; (it was dead). There was a few chicks in the water (mostly children) so that was a no go. I saw 2 chicks in the surf so i went over and pretended to catch a wave, just opened up with a "hey, whats up" they were quite receptive however i found out they were 15 and i ended up bailing ( didn't want to look like a pedo in front of my friend). In retrospect, if i was by myself i would have pushed for a number. Walking back to his house, i saw 3 girls walking past us down the walk-way but i pussed out. That was all for the day.
We went back 2 my mates place and just chilled, got a call from another friend who wanted to go clubbing tonight, my friend and i agreed and so got ready and went out. When we got there it was absolutely PACKED with chicks, absolutely banging. It came to my knowledge later that it was a end of college year/high-school party so that made sense. We walked in and straight away bumped into some1 i knew said our hellos and and departed. We hit the bar for a drink, and i started scanning, until i got a call from the friend who arranged the night asking where we were. We arranged to meet in the smoking area and when we got there we saw him. My mate (the one who had called us and who also smokes) asked 2 girls next to us for a lighter, they said yes and asked us where we were from etc... We bounced them to the D-floor after and started flaunting it. I noticed this SEXY ass blonde girl in a school uniform and nerd glasses (it was a theme) (i haven't mentioned this but blonde girls are my fav :) eyeing me, so i winked at her and she made her way over. i started to grind her and my friend who was dancing with one of the 2 chicks we had previously bounced came over an said "you can't get with her otherwise her friend will leave and i'll get nothing". I was in a pickle! i didn't know what to do, the choice was give up this solid 8/10 or go for the 6.5/10 and do my friend a favor at the same time. i decided to let the 8/10 go, i'm actually so pissed but me being an idiot didn't ask for a number!!! i had just let her go like a fool. At least my friend appreciated this, anyway, i started occupying the friend and she started talking about her ex-boyfriend of 1yr, i said something along the lines of "what happened, who broke up with who" she said "we need to go some place quiet so i can tell you". I now knew she was very keen, but i was still agitated that i had 2 blow off the way hotter one. We went to a little room and she started talking about her ex-boyfriend and how they "just got over it" however, he still loves her and messages her everyday. I just said, "that's really great, but i wasn't really paying attention because all i can think about was kissing you" (this wasn't actually true but i said it anyway, to be honest i would much rather of been sitting with the 8/10). She replied with "well then do it" and then it was on, hooked up for abit and then i thought this would be a good opportunity to practice isolation and logistics and stuff, so i actually asked her about where she lived and that kind of thing but she had lived extremely far away which was a bad thing! We then fluffed/hooked-up on and off for about 1 hour and in that hour i also then i had enough and went home. I intentionally didnt ask for her number but she said "don't you want my number" i said "yea okay" and gave her my phone. I haven't contacted her.
So that was my Thursday, i'm over the whole 8/10 thing as another chance will come, hopefully this weekend.
Author:  ceejay7 [ Fri Dec 07, 2012 8:00 am ]
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Thursday 6/12/12

I'm going to fast forward 1 week as nothing really happened. The only thing worth mentioning was that on the previous saturday night i went to a house party. When we got there, I said hi to everyone i knew at the table and introduced myself to the ones that i didnt. My friend instantly started chatting up a hottie, and she had a friend so i went over and started talking with the friend. We connected on the fact that we were the same nationality and went from there mostly fluff for about 10mins then i started commenting/touching what she was wearing. I didnt get any resistance, however when i pushed for the thigh she turned her head and acted like it wasn't happening. i interpreted this as a negative and decided to stop. I changed topic and some other dude joined the convo, this actually went on for about 2 hrs. I decided not to push at all during this time. I ended up leaving and saying bye, i didnt push for number or anything just kissed on the cheek and bounced. Was a bad night for me indeed.
Now, fast forwarding to the 6/12/12, it was an overall decent night. My friend, his friend and i went clubbing. We hit the scene around 11pm and got a drink, cruised around for abit and i tried spotting some potential,there wasnt really anything happening as it was early but i found out some famous band was playing downstairs so we went down there and it was packed! Spotted two hot girls on the left of me about 10meters, i went over and commented on one of their tattoos something like "that's a really hot tattoo" she hooked, i found out they were american and started talking about hotpspots in america. within 1min of the convo i was feeling the vibe and pushed for a isolation on the tattoo chick, she said she couldnt as she had to wait for her friend. I took this as a no go so i just kissed them both on the cheek and left. in retro, i think i should have pushed a bit more. We went upstairs and by this time it was about 12am, we sat at a table with 4 girls and a gay guy. All three of us occupied a different girl and it was going very well. My friend left with one to the cigarette room, i started talking to one of the chicks about her work and then noticed she had shiny tights on which i found hot. I said exactly that while touching them. I had no resistence, and started to move up and whispering in her hear dirty talk. It started softly like these tights and so smooth" while caressing them to the point where i just said, "youre so hot and all i wanna do is bend you over this table and pump you silly". She was actually taken back by this but giggled it off. I dont think many guys say stuff like this at all, her face was priceless. She didnt resist but she didnt nod her head agreeing either. At this point i thought i needed to bounce her, but her friend, the one who went for a cigarette came back and i heard her say "save me". I don't know what happened nor did i ask but i'm sure it has something to do with my friend pushing hard, he is a sexual predator and he doesn't stop for anyone. They then left and we were sitting there empty. The girl i was tuning said "i'll probably see you later" while smiling and walked off. I didnt end up seeing her again. We got another drink and as we went to the dance floor i dont know what happened but this chick and i we pushed up against each other, and she had her hand on my stomach, and within 30 seconds my hands were on her bum and we were making out. All i can recall was her asking my nationality, and her reply was "that's so hot". This girl knew how to work it, she was dirty dancing on me, grinding, droppin it low, the works.. it was fantastic, she was caressing my dick and were going in and out of hookups for about 2 mins until i literally just stuck my finger in and up her vagina. I had no resistance at all from any pushing, from the hands on her back to the bum to the vagaina. Her friend came over and said something and she said "i have to go but ill be back" i was like "yea okay" and kissed her goodbye, i didnt think she was gonna come back but i left anyway. We got another drink and just danced for abit until 3am and got a taxi home.

Thoughts

Overall it think my efforts were okay. I want to start pushing more, having better structure and go for hotter girls. I think the mindset i'm going with is working for me and i much prefer it over rehearsed routine methods. It is only the start of the week and ive reached the goal from last week, however, i till havent bounced anyone home. I think i've got alot of work to do, but i can see it is coming along nicely.
Author:  Robert Fernando [ Fri Dec 07, 2012 4:07 pm ]
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Hahaha you seem to do well man. Respect. More action in the last two posts than in 21 years of my life! You're a lot more direct than me I must say. What nationality are you anyway?

I had a thought when reading this - I'm English but of British-Indian descent, if I was this direct I think I'd be in jail dude LOL. :roll:

Peace
R
Author:  ceejay7 [ Sun Dec 09, 2012 6:06 am ]
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@ohforsure

I'm not sure how to tag but i hope you get this. Thanks man, i much prefer direct as it cuts the BS.
Quote:
What nationality are you anyway?
I'm 1/2 Armenian, 1/4 English and 1/4 Australian. You seem to have an interesting mix too.
Author:  ceejay7 [ Sun Dec 09, 2012 6:55 am ]
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Friday 7/12/12

Slow start to the day again, woke up, went to the gym and had a 10 hour shift at work. Finished around 7pm and head out to the clubs with a friend. This club in an upper class club with the average age being around 28 (who also have alot of money). I didnt take this an excuse however, i still tried. The first approach was in the smoking room where i asked the girl where she was from. I said something along the lines of "damn that's a sexy accent, where are you from" her reply was "Sweden" and then she asked me my age. I told her my age and she laughed and said, "you're too young to be here", everyone is ten years older. I kind of laughed this off and said it was nice meeting her, hugged her and left. I didn't let this get to me as it was true and i knew it was going to be like this. The next and final approach was at the bar, my friend started talking to a girl and bought her a drink. He said this was the only way we had a chance. I didnt do the same, however i occupied the friend. She was very nice and talkative, we talked for about 20mins about our lives, futures, family, and connected quite deep on these topics. I found out that she was only 4 years older than me too which i guess was the best it was going to get. I was consistently touching her back and arms, pulling her in to whisper in her ear, but i didnt go for a hook-up or anything, i was having a good time already and didn't want to potentially ruin it. As we were leaving i asked i bid her goodbye, and left on a very good note.

Thoughts

The overall night was not the best but given the circumstances i think it wasn't as bad as it could have been either. I met a few guys there too who work in the filed that i want to get into and they gave me alot of help/tips which i think will be very useful.
Author:  ceejay7 [ Mon Dec 24, 2012 11:53 am ]
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Monday 24/12/12

I've been violently ill the past 2 weeks stuck in bed and today is the only day which i've been able to get out and actually walk around. I have no idea what happened but i was completely gone. I'm almost 100% now and that means getting back to old tricks and mischief. I haven't been out for a while for stated reasons but this weekend i should be going out and hopefully and i can catch up for lost ground.

Merry Christmas :)
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