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| Author: | theboss.dj [ Thu Nov 15, 2012 2:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Number close, date cancelled number gone |
hi This is the second time i have picked up a girl on a bus ride home on a GO bus. I was sitting on the bus with some chick and kinda bored of listening to my music and so i decided to talk to her it was a bit hard to force my self to do it but... I mustered up the courage, and tapped her and asked "hey r u gonna sleep on the bus?" she says no. so anyways we start talking and it was a bit of a boring chat i played one game with her to kind of get a fun vibe going, but honestly i felt uncomfortable and stuff and i think i conveyed that but in the end i still got a number and she double checked to make sure it was the right number. I also arrange to meet her next week for lunch. So i get out and i dont message her until sunday btw i got the number on friday. so the conversation started out by me saying "Hey, hows your weekend going?" her: "Lol good! My fiance ended up coming from new york to plan a surprise with the fam for my birthday. Yours?" me: "u r engaged????" her: "yea i am and lol so? Im happy with it, why are you so judgemental lmao" me: "No I'm just saying its a bit of a surprise for me since u gave me your number and also said yea to going for lunch on tuesday", "Was it arranged?" her: "i've known him since i was a baby. we/re family friends. & Lol what are you trying to say? I dont see how me being engaged has anything to do with giving someone my number/having lunch." me: "A random guy that finds you extremely attractive asked for your number... does that ring any bells?!!!" " but i guess i'll be happy with just a friendship lunch considering the situation lol" ************** her: "... no it doesnt because im not a mind reader, i didnt know thats why you're talking to me. i was being nice and i thought you were too. Now if thats the only reason you were talking to me i dont think i wanna get involved with all this, sorry" me: "Lol you r so honest!!! I like that... yea that's fine with me i'm not trying to ruin a relationship here that was never my intention... but i'd still be happy if we could grab lunch sometime if that fine with you" then she never replied back until i said something but the rest of the conversation is lost. I said something abt like the only reason i talked to u was bcuz i was bored and w.e but either way in the end she just said i dont wanna mislead u bullshit ... but I just want your opinion on this how could i have fixed that from the **Star** point cuz thats where it went all downhill and lost everything, and just in case i end up in that situation again how can i get out of it... |
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| Author: | BingoBerry [ Sat Nov 17, 2012 11:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Number close, date cancelled number gone |
You practically forced her to confront the situation. She probably did know why she gave you her number and was looking for some sort of logic to justify the meeting/number exchange. Who knows? Her fiancé could have been reading that. You could just say lesson learned! I don't think there's much to salvage this if you don't see her in person again. - |
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