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| Author: | heetes [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 2:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Texting Strategies that have been Killing it for me |
I just just had a good conversation with this girl I have been seeing recently about how she loves the way I talk to her and text her. She is down in my bed right now sleeping but I figured I had to share because I think it can help some people hook women with texts. Lately I have been trying a bunch of different methods while texting. The thing thats been working on this girl is not telling her what we are going to do, where we are going or anything. All I tell her is what to wear or bring with her. She is eating it up. We talked about it and she was telling me that usually when guys ask her out on a date they tell her they are going for dinner or what the activity is. Then she has to ask where they are going in order to decide what to wear. There is no mystery or surprise about it. The first time I did this with her I told her I had to go away for one night to scope out a future business prospect and asked if she wanted to go with. She said she did. Later in the week I texted her something like this: “I am picking you up at 9:31am. Bring a conservative dress, hiking shoes with clothes to match, a swimsuit, and whatever you need to spend the night.” This was followed by: “Oh and I have breakfast covered to.” She did not get any details of the activities until we were about to do them. I knew she had never been to a winery so that was the first stop. It was actually not planned but it worked out well. It was one of the things I thought to do but didn't get an address or feel that motivated to go there but we stumbled upon it. Once there I talked to the wine maker and got us a tour of the place. I am glad I didn't tell her anything because this stop was a huge hit and it was not on the list. She will never know if it was planned or not. Not giving a lot of details allows you to be flexible and her to not be let down by a change in plans. Then we checked into the hotel and I told her to get her dress on. It took a bit for her to get ready but damn she looked good. We headed out to a fancy brew pub where we got the sampler platter of beer. It was a lot of fun talking about the beer and renaming them what they reminded us of. There were some nasty ones. Then we got dinner and headed out. I took her to a concert in a preforming arts center. What a hit that was. She loved it. The whole time she was thinking we were going to a movie because I told her what time we had to get there. Time was all she got though which added excitement. I also told her it was not a movie. It wasn't until she started seeing people dressed up in penguin suits that she believed me and got really excited. It was a good trip. Another thing that has been working is telling, not asking. I really hit it off with this girl at the bar. She was awesome and totally into me because I live a pretty exciting life and she was going to travel to a third world country I was really familiar with. We talked for a long time. I definitely worked her a little but not too much. When her friends, who I also knew prior to the night, would come to say something to her I would turn my back and start a conversation with anyone else. I would have her sit there waiting for a bit until I was done but I knew she wanted to keep talking to me and wasn't going anywhere. I later talked to her about that night and that was one of the things she said she was really pissed about. She also admitted that it made her strive more for my attention which was fun to hear. I was off talking to a friends mom (we were there for my friends birthday). The girl I was after said she had to go to the group. I ignored her and she walked off. I then got a tap on my shoulder and she goes, “Thanks for asking me for my number.” I said, “You want me to have it? What's your number?” She said, “I am not going to give it to you now!” So I did what any guy would do. Well maybe not. I turned around and ignored her and started talking to my friends mom again. Really pissed the girl off. She wasn't going to forget me. I did wind up getting that girls number from her best friend, the birthday girl, and shot her a text message two days later saying: “We are getting lunch Monday at One. What is your address?” As I expected her response was: “Who is this?' So I said: “The guy you tried to pick up at the bar the other night. What is your address” The next text was her address. I told her what to ware and it was a really good time. Women really like to be told what to do. They want you to take charge even though they might let on like they want to. Do not let them do this because it will fuck you in the long run. If they cannot make lunch at one, usually they will tell you when they can and if they do not, maybe try it one or two more times and then move on. It catches them off guard a bit and they love it. Women also like to brag to their friends about where they are going that night so by leaving a little mystery in the evening increases their conversation about you. Then they all sit there brainstorming what the girl you are after would be doing that night. After the fact, if you blew it out of the water she will be telling all the ladies about it for hours. It will be on their minds all day making them want you too! I have used this method a few times. All the times I have tried it, its been a huge success. Keeps them excited, engaged and most importantly it keeps you on their minds. I am sure someone has already tried it but I have not heard about anyone doing it so I figured I would share. Please post a reply when you try it and let me know how it goes for you. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 7:50 pm ] |
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Agreed. That's money. I'm going to try this next time. |
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| Author: | chilled563 [ Mon Dec 17, 2012 6:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Texting Strategies that have been Killing it for me |
nice. definitely going to try this. |
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| Author: | Zeus101 [ Mon Dec 24, 2012 12:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Texting Strategies that have been Killing it for me |
Nice report man. Definitely going to try the idea of adding mystery to dates, ive never thought about it before in the way you have talked about, i normaly just let her know the whole game plan of the date, but can see how keeping the details minimal can be very exciting. This is similar to something my friend did the other day which im also going to try.. he got this girls number, and text her asking for her address, when he got it, he wrote on a small notecard the time, date and what to bring for a date, which she hadnt even agreed to yet, and just slipped it into her letterbox. It went down a treat with her and she loved it all. I have found similar results to you with regards to telling the girl rather than asking her. Most good looking girls are used to getting a lot of attention, and the power that comes with it. However as soon as you take away her power (by not paying as much attention as every other AFC and by showing authority like telling her what to do instead of asking) she will be drawn to you uncontrollably and wiill be eating out your palm.. |
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