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Author:  Anjolo [ Sun Jul 22, 2012 6:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Fr nr-closing
Ok, putting up my first field report.

I went out Friday night at about 23.00
Had a couple of beers just to get my self tipsy. (my first sarging)
Took me about an hour before I had my self open a twoset.
I opened at 00.11 with a line about my friend having an accident and loosing one arm.
And I asked the ladies if they would date a man with only one arm.
I had the conversation going, trying to think about my bodylanguage.
Leaning back and my legs crossed the other way.
I did the 1-10 guessing dhv. Fluffing a little dhving again with a card trick and talking about the psychology behind the trick. She wanted me to do another trick but I said I was no clown.
I did not neg her but I did not let her touch me neither.
After some more fluffing the kino began and then she wanted me to companing her to the restroom.
I new I should say no but I said I had to go too.
After this I did not know what to do, but I tried to make the conversation more heartly as the kino escalated. Talking about my little brother and how I love to teach him music.
Under the conversation she said to me a couple of times she finds me interesting and wanted to see me again.
At 00.48 I number closed and she left with her friend.

My opener was good and my dhvs comes pretty natural because of my magic intrest.
But what comes ofter that?

I think Im going to call her and ask her for a date, maybe going to an artmuseum or something like that. (shes into art)

I need to work at my midgame and kino. I only did one opener during the night.
Im going out sarging next Friday too. Hoping to up my game a little until then.
Any thoughs are welcome.
Author:  Rodeo87 [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 4:46 am ]
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Sounds like a success for your first night! Nice one! Especially the "I'm not a clown part".

It's difficult to judge the whole situation without more detailed info, but about her asking you to acompany her to the restroom, that sounds like she's trying to isolate you(!) which there's no reason to say no to, unless of course it was in a "come-hold-my-hand-while-I-pee" sort of way, in which case you should obviously say no.

Regarding the next step, I would have starting qualifying her to me (did you?) and from there on move into rapport, in which case talking about your little brother and teaching him music is a great topic! So aside from skipping qualification it sounds like you delivered some pretty solid game :), plus you got the number close. keep it up!
Author:  Anjolo [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 7:27 am ]
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Thanks man!

The restoom thing was defently hold my hand thingy. Her friend had already left.
So the isolation was not the plan from her side. It was a pretty big place I think she wanted to make sure that the conversation would not end with her going to the restroom.
Qualifying? Whats that about?
I text her last night and she have not answered yet.


This stuff really works for me I really have to give it to the PUAworld!!
Author:  Rodeo87 [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 8:01 am ]
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Here to help (:.

Ok, You could have told you'd hang around in the bar somewhere then, but nevermind.

Qualification is the "last" stage of attraction, you make her chase you by having her qualify herself to you or sell herself to you, the most straightforward qualification being to ask her what her 3 best non-looks-related qualities are. This should all still be playful of course as it shouldn't turn into an interview. You can also make her qualify herself using a "self-fulfilling prophecy", basically you start talking about a quality that you like in others and then compliment her on giving you the feeling that she has that quality, if she's agrees (a nod is enough), she qualified herself to you, though it may not be as strong as when she's doing the talking.

Cool, what did you text her? (if you don't mind me asking), phone&text-game is a science in itself
Author:  Anjolo [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 8:51 am ]
Post subject:  text
She asked me a lot what Im doing the next day. I told her I planed to go out again.
But that never happened because my friend did not want to go out. And I chickened out and stayed home too. I should have gone out sarging alone.
But anyway. At about 22.00 a clock Sunday I text her something like this:

Hi girl! I did not want to send you a messege with bad news yesterday. I had something coming up and i did not go out. But I like to see you again. My friend gave me some free tickets to the cinema. Are you up for it//Name

She have not answered yet. But I think she will later today. As soon I she have I post it her.

And thanks for all the help man! It would be fun to nail my first opener.
Author:  Rodeo87 [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 12:08 pm ]
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Cool, hope she calls you, it WOULD be nice to nail the first opener :D.

Post back how everything turns out.
Author:  Anjolo [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 6:37 pm ]
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Im getting a little worried now. She haven't send me any message yet. I wounder if I did something wrong during my game. But I read that girls might take some time before they write back. I hope thats the case. I hate to be some ass licker. So if she's not answer Im nexting her. Or what do you say do I give up to easy?[/b]
Author:  Rodeo87 [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 8:17 pm ]
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There's no doubt about that girls sometimes take their sweet time answering back, plus a lot of girls flake easily even when decent game was in place.

Either way it takes some gettting used to not letting it affect you too much. Eventually you'll get to the point where it will feel natural whether and you should text her again. 

Until then, give a day or two, and then text her something along an attraction spike, if she still doesn't respond it's likely a dead end.

I would definently text her an attraction spike in a day or two as its very common for some girls to flake like this, so hang in there (:
Author:  Anjolo [ Tue Jul 24, 2012 9:16 am ]
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I dont think Im going to send her another message. I think I didnt build enough attraction. I had problems with making her laugh. I will try to fix that until friday when Im going to hit the club again. When it comes to let it all pass and moving on I have no such a problem at all. If she decides to text me I'll post it her. But if not I will do another field report this weekend maybe two. It depends if Im going out Saturday too.
Author:  Rodeo87 [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 5:26 pm ]
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I always look at it this way; if I don't text her again it's pretty certainly dead, she's highly unlikely to re-engage. If I text here, there's still a chance, and not necessarily a bad one, that it will move forward since girls can flake for a billion reasons. And if she still doesn't answer it was dead anyway and I'll have lost nothing.
Author:  Anjolo [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 7:39 pm ]
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I don't know dude thumbs up for your self confidence. I just want to have my head high and keep a good reputation. And might see her again in the same club. If I do I'll game her again. I was also thinking about she might think Im gay. There were a lot of gay men around the place I sat that evening. And I get that a lot from people. Other men hitting on me and girls asking if Im gay. The goal for me was to have a good opener. And I did. When it comes to DHVing and fluffing Im pretty natural because I have been studying magic and psychology the last two years. Next time I'm aiming for the kinopart. I think I'm going to do a palm reading to get the kino flowing natural. And I need to be more cocky funny too. That comes really unatural to me because I don't like to joke around at other peoples cost. So I want jokes so I can laugh with them instead of at them.

Hopfully I get a K-close this weekend :)
Author:  Rodeo87 [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 9:16 pm ]
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Hehe I know what you mean, I get that way too sometimes. Most of though I think ones ego get's in the way. Besides, depending on what kind of attraction spike you use your ego/reputation can remain perfectly intact.

Nice one with the magic & psychology part, girls thinking you're gay though, could mean that you're attraction phase needs some work, better kino should definently help with that though if your DHV and qualifiers are tight.

Good luck this weekend! post back how it goes (;
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