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Author:  max3steve [ Sat Jan 05, 2008 3:10 pm ]
Post subject:  FR: shit tests and how i beat them

FR: shit tests and how i beat them
This FR is about a girl I met online and how I managed to overcome the shit tests she through at me.
For the longest time, I've been having a lot of trouble dealing with tests women were throwing at me. There were times I didn't even know I was being tested and just like a little puppy I followed the woman's lead until she "failed me".

I posted about it on ASF (before I knew about this board) and someone recommended I read the onlinedatingpro.com section on shit tests and how to overcome them.
I did and it was actually very helpful in getting over my biggest problem.
When a girl used to ask me a question (usually something that requires me to qualify myself) I would go into explanations about why I qualify and that would just kill any attraction I had built up. The onlinedatingpro.com book had some pretty good examples on what to do, but the best one, was simply to ignore it and switch the conversation to something else!

I couldn't believe that was possible, I mean, if I would be asking someone a question, I would expect an answer and if they ignore me, then I would say they are rude, but apparently this works!

So I finally tested it on a date I got from eharmoney. We went through the whole annoying process of questions and answers and eventually decided to meet. She looked good in the pictures, and they pretty much reflected how she looked in reality so that was good.

We started a regular conversation, which went well, and then she started asking me qualifying questions. I didn't want to go back to my old self and just answer her, so I just ignored anything I couldn't use to build attraction! That was amazing! She just kept talking as if nothing happened!

It actually worked in my favor. Every shit test I passed made me more attractive to her and got me some serious IOIs after that!

I should have escalated Kino much faster, but I didn't, so at the end, I only got to give her a short kiss, but she said she wants to see me again, so I'm looking forward to that!

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