Helloooo gentleman! I know this is a long report, but I aprreciate if you would take your time to read and give me some feedback. Thanks in advance guys!
Like the topic title says this goes about a cute little HB9 girl next door type.
She lives at a college dorm where one of my best friends also live so that is where I met her. The first time is just talked a bit, negged her, being fun and myself (I'm not so much about routines, pretty much natural game). I do think I did get some IOI's. I tought she was kinda cute. Oh yeah, when I said I was about to leave she said she was going to bed.
So the second time was at this BBQ and she is not a attention seeker, was not saying really a lot so after a while I saw some opportunity a started talking to her (but it was a BBQ and other people so was not being overly flirty, but I do think I was good company. She left quite early because she had an exam the next morning.
Then the third time was at this party (al of this was in like a timeframe of two weeks) just a couple of days back at her college dorm. This is where it gets interesting and where I might made a mistake, but I do think I have some point to turn it around. Still reading? Good, lets continue.
When I saw her there I knew it. I was hit by a little one-itis. Not thinking she was more special or something, but genuine feelings I guess (or yeah just one-itis
). I didn't initiate contact right away. First just talking to some guys etc (DHV right), and I was pretty sure she was eyeing me and giving IOIs (the hand in the hair).When I started talking to here I knew it was one-itis, cause my conversation was sometime a bit boring (like talking about college and stuff, altough we both have exams so it was nog that weird, I wasn't asking about her about like do you have siblings, a pet, what is your favorite colour, no I never turn into a AFC like that lol, no disrespect). I was sober as a rat (exams and still needed to drive), but that friend of me who also lives there was wasted. And I mean like really wasted. I was like checking on him every 15 min and giving him some water etc, etc. So I was honestly being a bit distracted, wich gives me a reason to why I was a bit boring some time and in my opion is also a DHV (taking care of a friend instead of partying, hell yeah, right? --> and next time telling you was a bit boring and waving it off like a joke seems also like DHV to me --> self-mockery in general seems like DHV to me, well not if it is whining of course, anybody agrees?).
First I might have had the idea that she was shy and insecure, but now I'm not so sure. She might not be a flaky party-girl, but she was getting hit on a few times, telling them no and staying close to me. So thad should be a confident boost, getting hit on a few times a night, damn this HB9 is hard to read! Maybe because she knew me a bit or felt comfortable, but hey seems like points for me.
When I was leaving she was sitting with some other guy who was trying to hit on her (I guess) so I walked by and said I'm leaving for real right now (when I told earlier I was about to leave she told me yeah I think I'm going to sleep also). I spreaded my arms and came of the sofa and give me a hug and a little kiss. She told me she founded the guy annoying and if she would see me around the dorm again. So I fired the 'are you hitting on me?' joke. Mostly when I use it around girls who are friend or otherwise they know it's a joke. But she was like no-no-no-no-no-no (it was like a busted denying or like no way you freak you got the wrong idea, the latter seems not that realistic to me). So I told here hey we could go for a drink sometime (timing was not great) and she was like maybe. I'm not sure about her tone here (cannot remember properly). So I was like ASD (she was getting hit on a lot) and hard to get or is she just trying to 'reject me nice'. So I tought hell no I'm going away with a maybe. So I said hey you may say no (showing DHV that I'm not gonna chase a ghost or something). And she was like, no, we'll see next time your around (seems like hard to get, ASD, and also bad timing from my side after the are you hitting on me response). And I was well all right then see ya (deciding not to push any further).
So what do you think guys? Like I said before, this girl is pretty hard to read, might be one of the hardest to read and crack for me I've encountered. Oh yeah, ASD and such is higher at a younger age right? She still need to hit her twenties so that might place some things in a different perspective.
End of this almost neverending report,
JF