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| Author: | Locke [ Tue Jan 01, 2008 5:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | New Years Eve Field Report (1) |
Date: December 31st, 2007 Location: TGIFridays walked into the place, took a step into the bar doorways. with a big smile on my face, kind of glanced for a second, then walked up to the bar, sat down on a stool next to a two set; took off my jacket and ordered a water. (mistakes are noted at bottom) "wow, your new years party looks like a blast, is this all you guys are planning" -the one on the phone ignored me, the other girl smiled and said "haha, no way this is the pre game" me: "ah, pre game at a TGIfridays, gotta be something better than that? Hey, so can I ask you a question?" her: "sure...." me: "well being the big brother that I am (I forgot to say "great") I've got a little sister that gets into a lot of trouble when she drinks. I am trying to figure out if I should let her....more like approve of her going out and getting crazy?" her - take the phone from the other girl (they are trying to figure out driving arrangements, one girl got stuck at work- thats who they were on the phone with) me: that the rest of the group that is coming here? her (one that was currently on the phone) - shakes head and then continues phone conversation me: turn to the other girl; well maybe you'll be able to help me out - my little sister is this tiny little petite thing and when she drinks she gets crazy -everything from sick to just flat out wild new hb: oh, and? me: well I am trying to figure out if I should let her go out and party tonight? her: does she ALWAYS get crazy? me: yea... her: I don't know, that is a tough question. me: it is isn't it!? I have been struggling with it for a while her: uhhh, I hope my sister doesn't get crazy. I just bought her alcohol...but I would say no to your sister me: hmm, well I dunno. now that I think about it, sometimes it is best to let them make their own decisions. me: *inquire about who is on the phone and why they arn't bringing the party* her: blah blah blah tells me about the call and the situation me: you ever travel outside New EnglanD? her: no, not really me: You are telling me you are old enough to sit at a bar, but have yet to leave your state!? her: well, i've been to virginia me: alright, see...you HAVE been. How are the beaches there? her: good me: a lot better than Cape Cod, that's for sure. Oh man, have you been down to Charleston? her: no, but i've been to North Carolina. me: wow, thats a lot more places than none. her: *smiling* yea, it was nice. me: Oh it's terrific isnt it? Warm water, minimal jellyfish, great people. her: yea. it was fun silence silence silence silence me: if you were to go anywhere in america, where would you choose? her: I don't know.... me: there has got to be somewhere her: I really don't. thats a tough question me: yea...Its like a test right now. her: giggle me: thats why everyone calls me Pop Quiz. her: they call you that????? me: no, I wouldn't ever let that happen. silence silence silence first girl gets off the phone they start talking again me: so where is the party? first girl: that was so and so, she is stuck at work blah blah blah (mostly talking about the situation with the other girl) me (jokingly): well her job is just being responsible. ya know, keeping all the crazyness off the streets for tonight. first girl: ha, yea right (boss' name) would never keep craziness down. me: I don't know him, but I am sure your right thennnnnn the girls start talking between themselves again I wait about two minutes, take my jacket and tell em I got to catch up with my friends and walk away. here is what I know I did wrong: eye contact was decent with the second girl, but while going through the little sister bit, I kept looking to the side of her; kept having to force myself to maintain EC when I first got there, I sat down next to them at the bar and ordered a water before opening I sat down next to them, OOPS! (it was kind of dead, and I was trying to prevent attention on me....which is sort of reverse what I wanted for social proof, right?) I let them start talking to each other again and did not add in or keep focus on myself what I liked: because the second girl was smiling and paying attention to me, I was nervous, but not embarrassed...I could actually keep a REAL smile on my face. it was a good opener (even if I kind of fumbled through it) when getting up to leave, it was on my que and I knew when it was time. I could have kept trying, but I got to leave NOT in disgust with myself all in all 1 shitty set with no success, but no crash and burn either. There was another 5 set that I didnt have the balls to approach, so I just left. |
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| Author: | Flare [ Tue Jan 01, 2008 7:08 pm ] |
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it was alright good job for havin the balls to open but except for opener, which worked great ( got them talking) you shold have built attraction thrown a few negs and meybe even some games (cube, 5 Q.) instead of just asking them questions like you did... Oh and kino! lol good job though |
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| Author: | dealz [ Tue Jan 01, 2008 10:27 pm ] |
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i love the opener. i might use that. but like flare said, too much questions. just demonstrate value through DHV stories or negs. I think you actually demonstrated a DLV by the excessive questions. Lots of questions and try not to use disconnected questions, that's so AFC man... then build some comfort and then just kiss close. you're on your way to being a pick up artist. keep it up |
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