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| Author: | NicoPUA [ Sun Mar 25, 2012 11:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Staring out in a foreign country |
I originally posted this under lay reports by mistake, Sorry about that. A little info about me: I'm 18 years old and learned about pick up a few a months ago. For a couple of months I've only been reading and watching videos on pick up theory but never applied it my self. Just recently I decided to go out for the first time and thought keeping a journal might be a good idea to later look back on and see how much I've improved. I'm also staying in Guayaquil, Ecuador where I don't know any of the people except my family, however I do speak the foreign language. So with out further or do, here is my first lay report. Saturday, March 24, 2012 (First day) - Okay this wasn't actually my first time out. I attempted to do some pick up a week before but chickened out. That night, however, I asked my cab driver if he could just drive me around and show me good places to go out. I figured since he drives drunk party goers around all night all week he must know some good places. He also pointed out the ones where a lot people have gotten robbed and even kidnapped. That's actually kinda of a common thing in this city. So anyways, last night i wen't out with my friend to the mall. We started out by just doing question openers to people. I asked most of them where I could find some good shoes. I figured an odd question like that may help me get out of my bubble. My friend wasn't approaching as much and that sorta brought me down. i kept pushing him to approach but it took forever for him to do it. We went into a bookstore where there was a surprising good amount of good looking girls just hanging out looking at books. 1 minute in there and I approached a tourist from France. She looked like she was in her pjs and somehow that made it easier for me to open. I was actually feeling some momentum from all the question openers and decided to try something else. I heard her and her friend speak english so i asked her if she was american or english. Me - are you american? Her - No I'm french Me - oh what brings you down here? Her - I'm just traveling around Me - what places have you been to? Her - oh this and that blah blah We actually got into a few pretty interesting conversations about things that i enjoyed talking about. i guess that made things a little easier for me and her as well. She did a lot of the talking and i just kept smiling and making strong eye contact. i made a few teases here and there, made opinions on her looks and personality, and tried to talk about things i could relate to. At the end i got her number and later texted back and forth to figure out where we should again that night. Oh and I was a little nervous throughout the interaction at the mall so when i went to put her number on my phone i noticed my hand was shaking lol. But that night I ended up not going out cause i felt way too tired. that was my last approach of the night and just went straight home after that. i woke up this morning a little disappointed in my self for not going but i'm just glad i made an approach and managed to make a good interaction out of it. Well, please feel free to give me some advice and tell me what i should work on. I'm gonna start going for day game cause the bars here are a bit sketchy. any advice on places i should go? parks vs clubs? day game vs night game? the mall that night by the way was PACKED with people and a lot of them were some pretty hot girls. If you're ever out in this city, the mall that i went too is called San Marino. - Nico |
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