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| Author: | Voudon [ Sat Feb 25, 2012 10:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Gorgeous Russian |
I met this girl a few months back at a social function. Very cute, 23, hb9. Started talking to her last week. Real flirty real quick. So we go to my friend's place for dinner and then back to mine and the vibe is amazing. I go to kiss her. SHe says she has a boyfriend and doesn't want to cheat on him. Her previous relationships have been open relationships and this guy isn't down for that. So we cuddle up on the couch and talk and she goes home. A couple days later she wants me to go to Yoga class with her. I've never done Hatha Yoga before so I'm interested and not just because she is going. I meet her there and we go into the class. It was amazing in there but that's beside the point. CHeck it out. I walk her to her car and we hug and she places her head on my chest. It should be kept in mind she hasn't been dating this guy that long. We make plans to do the same thing on Friday at a different studio. The day comes and we are talkign and flirting through the whole trip and get to the studio and we're late. SO we go to my house. Now we've been pretty touchy feely for the whole time. Slight touches, hugs etc. We decided to sit on the floor with my computer and do the youtube video thing. Laughing and talking and holding hands. Very nice. I kiss her on the cheek because she turns her head when I try to kiss her. But her eyes were saying to kiss her as did her body language. At this point I go make dinner and she follows me in the kitchen and we talk and cook and laugh and she hugs me a few times, again putting her head on my chest but this time I put my hand on the back of her neck. I didn't tug her hair this time. We eat with my roommate and her boyfriend and talk with them. I finish before her and put my plate in the kitchen and come back and she sets her plate down and cuddles up to me and my roommate excuses herself from the room. I'm really digging this chick. We have so much in common it isn't funny and she fits my profile perfectly. What I like etc. And from what she has said I fit hers. Score. We put in a movie for us to watch and she curls up to me and we talk and watch the movie. After the movie she wants to see this lecture I presented the previous weekend that she had missed. So I am going through the power point presentation and she is just looking at me and she grabs my hand and pulls me closer to her while I am talking. When I am done she puts her arms around me and I start kissing her shoulder and she starts kissing my neck. It starts getting very intense. SHe lets me kiss her lips... once. But we continue this make out session. It's like our energy just filled up the whole house. We stop when it starts getting too intense. SHe apologizes and I say it's ok, I'm a patient man and smile and she says "maybe too patient". I know what she is wanting but I am riding the energy and I don't want her to regret sleeping with me and never see her again. I want to play this one just right. I even tell her that and she pulls herself onto my lap where we are sitting on the floor and we start the whole process again. I let her kiss my throat, which is a no no for me but I wanted to show her I trust her. She leans back and I start kissing her stomach and softly caressing it with my hand. This happens a few times through the night but it gets to be 3 a. I can tell I am driving her nuts because she is like I need to go home, she had to work in the morning so I walk her to her car, get my stuff out and we hug and she leaves. I wasn't expecting to see her this weekend. I knew she had plans with the boyfriend and I carefully dodged all references to him. So last night she calls when she gets off work and asks if I am still at the bar with my friends and I am like yeah so she comes over before his show with his band that she was going to. We go eat some pizza and hang out for a bit with the gang, very close, holding hands and laughing and she gets this text from her boyfriend. The drummer didn't show up and the band is done. She goes to call him and I wait for her to come back. Pay for my drinks. She comes back and is like he's meeting me here... I said I should leave then and she is like noooo I want you to stay with me. What will I tell him blah blah blah. I said ok I will stay and she's like no. I will call him back and have him meet me somewhere else. So I walk her to her car and I'm thinking ok, guy's life is on the fritz, she was wanting to tell him about things last night but he has put 6 years into this band for it to fizzle out. Ok. I send her off. I'm too nice a guy to pull everything out from under this guy like that. So I text her this morning. I said listen, I think it is best for us to back off right now. I like you too much for you to feel like I am a mistake and I would rather you be in my life than a one night stand and I don't want to be the guy who says him or me. We've been texting since but why do I think I shot myself in the foot? I think this guy will be the one who says him or me and I can obviously slowly escalate things back up. She even wants to go on vacation with me and I have far more similar interests to her while this guy... he has a band and dresses goofy... that's it from what I have been told. I haven't met him yet. I just didn't think it would be right for me to keep that intense a pressure up when he feels his life is collapsing because of this. Next step? |
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| Author: | _Action_ [ Sun Feb 26, 2012 5:31 am ] |
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Haha, don't try to tell us you're a nice guy. You're stealing another guy's girlfriend. I don't disapprove - survival of the fittest, baby. But it isn't "nice." It sounds like there's massive sexual tension between you guys, the main source of it being that she's with someone else but you're both down to fuck. Be careful here. IF hypothetically she leaves the other guy, that will dispel a lot of the tension, because you'll be allowed to fuck. Where's the fun in that? That's just a possibility. Consider it. It sounds like you're a great match. But protect yourself. Don't be too available. Don't send anymore texts like the one you mentioned. By sending that text you were dispelling tension. Texts like that are no fun. Hope I've helped dude. |
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| Author: | Voudon [ Sun Feb 26, 2012 6:51 pm ] |
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Oh it got back to flirty last night. Her end. LOL I am freezing her out right now though because no reply today but she might be at work or with him. I was giving the illusion of nice guy.  Yeah the chemistry is amazing. My roommate says me and this girl make HER horny. LOL
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| Author: | _Action_ [ Sun Feb 26, 2012 10:38 pm ] |
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Sounds like you know what you're doing. |
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| Author: | nosdab [ Mon Feb 27, 2012 5:41 am ] |
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Keep going, be patient but don't put all you hopes in this one girl. Keep other options available. Most likely she will be with you sooner than later. The only advice I give you is DON'T FALL FOR HER even if you fuck her. I had a similar situation a few years back, same story as yours, she had a boyfriend but was hanging out with me for 6 months (yeah too much time) and suddenly they broke up and it was time for some fucky fucky with me. That lasted for a month but then she went back with the guy and the damage was already done. She broke my heart because when she was finally with me after 6 months I totally lower my defenses and it suck big time. So keep hanging out with her, she will be yours but what happens after that is up to you. Good thing comes to those who wait. Nosdab |
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| Author: | _Action_ [ Mon Feb 27, 2012 11:12 am ] |
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I know exactly where nosdab is coming from. Never underestimate boyfriends. She could find you more attractive in every way - but at the end of the day, she's a lot more INVESTED and EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED to her boyfriend. You can't change that, at least not in the short term. So yeah, like nosdab said, don't fall for her. |
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| Author: | Voudon [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 3:14 am ] |
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Ok... she stayed the night last night. We went to this yoga class and she came over and made me dinner. We hung out in my room, made out quite a bit then boom, she's like can I stay here tonight. Today she left at 8 and called him and told him. I'm not sure what to tell her so when I talked to her I said if you need to chat I will be here reading and studying my math assignment for college. These sorts of things I am not too good at. Not sure what to say. He was rightfully pissed from what I gathered. |
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| Author: | Klauss [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 7:40 am ] |
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Great FR! My adive sense I were in a similar situation just that I liked the girl a bit not much And she had a boyfriend so I hanged with her whole week cause she looked good and cute. I gave her sometime to brake up I had my intention clear told her I will not fuck you until you brake up but I ended up fucking her whole month while after fucking her I was escorting her to her boyfrie d house. Very not nice and after she broke up with him I throw her away as a lesson never to cheat. Cause I believe, girl that cheat once will cheat again so fuck her. |
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| Author: | Voudon [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 8:04 am ] |
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To be fair Klauss, this girl was usually in open relationships in comparison with the girl you discuss and I don't feel it is my job to teach her a lesson in that regard. When I started this journey I made a list of what I was looking for and what I wasn't looking for and ever since I have found that I am attracting the kinds of women I am looking for because I am being more perceptive of the qualities I like in women. This one has them in spades including the open relationship element. All of them have really. I was always a natural with women and what PUA has done is give me the confidence to go for what I want instead of settling for what is there. My life has been more fulfilling and happier in the... 10 months, since I first read Revelations and worked through my weak points. I've even used the information to create other opportunities in my life and help build those deeper connections I have been looking for. I didn't come to this because I wanted to meet more women or get laid more but because I wanted to be happier. That much has been accomplished since I broke the Hollywood image of what relationships mean in my life. I will admit that the fact that most women & men turn out to be social robots was depressing for a few months as I got deeper into this. Seeing women I once thought highly of devolve into primadonna personalities was a shock. I was seeing one woman for a few months who ran the boyfriend line by me... followed by me saying "I won't cross lines if you don't" and then watching, initially with glee, in how she reacted to my interactions with other women by making me the center of her world and kssing me only to then start the cycle over with every interaction. That got depressing because I realized all I need to do to get in her pants is make her jealousy kick in. Recently I got over that depression after interacting with her and just thinking... yeah this isn't what I want. My friend was amazed at how quickly I moved on to the next one. He wanted to know my secret and hit the library and read The Game and is now all over me on information about it and he's dating my room mate! I've clicked on techniques that would blow some minds built off of what is presented in the books. It's kind of scary because... I rarely go out. No joke. When I do go out I am routinely surrounded by 3-5 women at parties and my friends hang out in gay bars and the lesbians there vie for my attention. It's crazy shit. |
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| Author: | Voudon [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 8:13 am ] |
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Oh and I number close every time and kiss close with the ones I really dig. I run this stuff just to make women more comfortable around me. It's been amazing with men as well in making true & loyal friends. Another cool thing is that I have never used canned openers. One woman I am seeing... LOL... oh my that was a story and the first time I used PUA. I was at this big pagan gathering in Indiana and they were playing this game the night before where the guys had bottles of alcohol and would ask women if they wanted a drink but said there was a kiss tax. You get a shot for a kiss. Well the next morning I came across this girl and a friend of mine and she was laughing at the game, she thought it was wonderful and I said I'm not charging for kisses. She hopped on my lap and kissed me. The guy she was talking to later said something about how he didn't know how to tell when a woman he was dancing with at the fire wanted her to kiss him so I said let me show you, told her to come to me and did the brushing her hair out of her face and my finger under her chin, she stood on her tiptoes and closed her eyes and I planted a soft, sensual kiss on her lips and walked off with her. He stood there with his jaw on the ground and recently came to me for assistance in how to do that. LOL She and I are still seeing each other. That was in early June. |
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