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| Author: | A-team [ Wed Feb 22, 2012 9:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | Where did I mess up here ?! |
I went out tonight to a club.This HB7.5 has been eyeing me for a while so i move to position my self in front of her with my back turned towards her and over the shoulder ask her why shes dancing alone...and got her hand...spun her around and she started dancing with me. I escalated very quickly and within 5 min we were nose to nose and started making out. It was slow kissing and it felt like we were both into each other. So I isolate her and take her to a quieter place in the club and ask her name since i couldn't really hear her before. I smile and we go back to kissing and dancing. All of a sudden she says that lets go back to my friend and I was like OK lets go. So I take her back and she says something to her friend. I try to make friends with her friend, she tells me her name and say that HB7.5 will be with her now. I was like what is that suppose to mean? she shrugs her shoulders, I look at the HB7.5 and she is smiling and i was like what the hell is your friend talking about, at that time her friends pulls her and she just smiles and moves with her. At this point i was like wtf and just moved to the side right next to her to see what the hell she was gonna do next. I totally ignore her and just chill by myself and soon after they leave. Now i know I messed by letting her friend walk all over me and didnt take any actions but was that a shit test? what happened there? What could have I done differently? I would appreciate any and all advice |
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| Author: | PurpleSmash [ Wed Feb 22, 2012 10:09 pm ] |
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Asking her name totally takes her out of the moment. It makes her stop for a second and think. It doesn't matter what she's thinking about, but the fact that she is even thinking is the problem. When you're in the middle of turning a girl on, don't engage her logical mind. It's like the difference between asking a girl to come to isolation, and simply leading her there. In the first case she now has to think about you and what that dark corner involves, so "no" crosses her mind. In the second case, she's horny and you've already made the decision. When she's dripping wet she doesn't want to think. This happens to me quite often if I'm drunk. I get cocky with a girl that I have already made out with, and say something like "this is so hot, and I don't even know your name." Every single time it just ruins the moment. Some girls you can reel back in, but most will just leave after they realize how slutty they are coming across. Lastly, I prefer to kiss a girl once rather than make out with her all night. She can be satisfied from the prolonged makeout, and simply shove you into the "random dude I made out with" category. If you're gunning for a SNL then it doesn't really matter, but if you just get her number, I've found I have an easier time if I haven't had an extended makeout. |
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