Greetings,
I've started dwelling into the depths of PUA a good year ago, back then I used to be a mess-up. My social-skills were extremely bad, I had no real contacts, spent hours and hours, heck even weekends playing video-games and generally, I had nothing in me & ofcourse my confidence was horrible. In those rare occasions that I would go out, I'd stand there in the middle of the club, talking to my very few mates and tried to get as drunk as possible, it's good when You have nothing better to do.
After a long time of social torture, I decided to hit the shelves, picking up the game from mystery, ever since then everything has pretty much skyrocketted. I'm now a social beast, I have absolutely no AA, I managed to take on an Alpha male attitude and I'm enjoying my life, atleast a thousand times more then before, my confidence is rock solid and there is absolutely nothing that stops me.
I'm here to share some of my stories throughout the ''years'' and hopefully adding in some good pointers which I've remembered. I've got some interesting motivational quotes aswell that keep me bright on those shitty days.
'' Dont live down to expectation, go out there and do something extroardinary ''
'' A true warrior, is a warrior that can turn hes conviction into a blade ''
'' You gotta lose some, to gain some ''
These 3, are the ones that I carry with me, everywhere I go, whatever I do.
Day (1): Halloweenparty.
Pumped myself up, made some contacts that day, just making sure I really got into the mood. Went there with a few mates, and we bumped into a girl that my friend seemed to know, She was pretty cute and I decided to throw away my AA and go for it. She was having a drink and I asked her a question about it and threw in a funny comment. We went to get some drinks and decided to go dance along with the girls we just saw. I tried being as creative as possible and saw 2 kisses on her shirt.
After a good amount of strong eye-contact + IoI's from her, I decided to hit it. The music was loud so a conversation could've possibly messed up the indirect link. I came up to her and said
Me: I like your shirt, but what exactly do those kisses stand for? ''Wink''
Her: The first kiss is for ''She kisses me on my cheeks''.
Me: Well that's interesting, seems I might aswell ask, what is the second one good for?
Her: ''Kisses me on my mouth''
We made out a bit more, then number closed her and continued to party.
It was the first kiss I got after 2.5 years since my LTR.
This was the beginning of my journy & thirst for more.
It went fairly cheap, I played my game extremely bad, but I had learnt ALOT from just this experience, something I still carry along.
Positive things I learnt/did:
* Put my AA aside
* Pumped myself up before I went
* Tried to be creative with something rather then boring
* Showed ALOT of confidence when I walked in
* Genuinely played the funny/cocky guy
* Took on the mindset of I dont give a fuck what happends.
Negative things I learnt/did:
* I opened very few sets, should've definatly done more.
* Got really drunk since I was satisfied
* Bad Kino
* Bad escalation
* Bad jokes
Key of succes: Confidence + Balls.