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Author:  xvxv3ndetta [ Mon Dec 10, 2007 5:10 am ]
Post subject:  My FIRST official attempt to Pickup.. evaluations plz?

Eh... it felt like I was going somewhere, but I'm not so sure if they were successfully.

Phew, I never felt so NERVOUS ever. But i t was fun just trying. I never thought the idea of doing "the real thing" without any experience would make me so... nervous!! But I went for it and this is what happened...


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Location: At a restauraunt
Target: HB9... Hired Gun "waitress"

okay, my friend decided to take me on a field test. some of you might recognize him as virgil07... we've been good friends for a long time. So he called me up and told me were going somewhere today and boom! My first field test... and my target is a waitress!
I freaked out, but I did everything to keep my cool. There was only one thing I had an issue with. Approaching her when...
-she's not busy
-she's not walking the opposite direction

Most of all, I didn't want to DLV so I hesitated. Virgil07 was my spotter and he was the one signaling me to go for it. But my ass sat down for about 20 minutes before I said.. "EFF IT! imma do this myself"

I got out of my seat when she was leanin on the counter about 12 feet away. I walked passed her, then looked at her over the shoulder...

"hey! Me and a friend here need a check."
She was nice and responded politely. Then I did my routine...
"Wait a moment, I need a females opinion. it will only be a minute mmaky? She says okay of course, with a smile.
"See, me and a friend were having a conversation earlier and it all came down to this. We were just wonder... who lies more? Men, or women?"

She smiling. By this time I had turned myself to her
"Well, to me... I think the guys lie more. Then again, I'm probably saying this because I'm a girl."

I kinda forgot what happened afterwards, but at some point I tossed in an neg: "Hey, is that your real hair color?"

She look at her hair for a bit, and became a lil conscious of it. She started touching her hair and smiling a lil bigger.

"...looks nice, I guess"
She was like "thank you.

Afterwards, I continued the conversation and BS'ed a story. It was so convincing that it felt like it really happened.

I wanted to pull some routines like 5 lies, Mystrey's attraction gambit, and some ESP or whatnot. But her boss was walkin around and i didn't want to get her fired.

I don't rememeber much, i was soo caught up in the moment!

It ended with "well, we gots to go.. we could use some to go boxes."
She was like "im so sorry, I can't give you any here, the boss dosent liek that"

"its cool its cool i said." Then I ended it with "It's a pleasure to meet you"
Well, some stuff happened afterwards

We never got each to others name.. .I think it's because I ended it so soon. It was about 4 minutes of conversation.

What I did gain was her attentioon, after that her eyes were locked on us the whole time. She looked like she had a great 4 mintues.. like I did. I walked off ecstatic. I jsut felt so good! Defiantly helped me get over my break-up.

My Evaluation: mediocre success: No number clsoe, no nothing! I was soo happy, but I felt like I could do more if she wasnt working. I failed to initiate KINO. I CANT BELIEVE I FORGOT THAT!! Now what else am I missing something?

P.S. Thanks to Virgil07 and Jsmooth for all the advice, it's helped me alot ^_^

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Location: Hollister
Target: HB7 "she was working"

This is a funny story. I was walking with a friend at the mall, and we decided to go buy some clothes for his GF since her B-day was going up. I figured it was a good opportunity to pick up so I did.

I messed up on the 3 second rule BAD!! I was thinking of moving into another girl, but I wanted to stick to her just to see what happens.

My friend was tellin me to do it, and that put chills up my spine.
She passed by and I'm like "SHIAAZ!!" (in m yead of course). I was leaning agasint the counter and she was in front of me. My body was already facing her so... I didnt want to do it. But i was crazy enough to do it despite my paralyzing emotions

I did an openr about men and women lying. I put a false time constrait there of course. She herd my false time constrait "which went before the openr", but she didnt hear my opener.

So I said my openr... and waited for her response.
"What?"

I was like nevermind, thanks for your time. Me and my friend rolled out to some otehr store afterwards.

We came back cuz he needed something, and we just so happen to pass by her again. She asked us "hey, do yo uguys work here??"

I was HELLA SUPRISED! First off, she had this radio thing... that same radio thing that a lot of the employers have.

I responded "Does it look like we work here?" *laughs*
yeah, I would of thought you did >_<
"aww, that's cute."
"haha, okay sorry >_<" *leaves to do her business*

We walked around a bit to cool my chills down. Then I told him to punch me. he gave me a weak punch and I'm like: "man dude, punch me harder."

He did, and all of a sundden I wasnt nervous anymore!
"Common bro, I have an Idea, let's do this! imma use the shirts you just got as an opener. Imma get her oppioion on whether they are matching or not. Then, i'll put her next to me and I want you to judge it. Good?" This was my first original opener >_<

He's like "iono." I was like good, let's go.
Then alla sudden he gets UBER nervous and stops me. he's like "WAIT! let's do soemthing for a bit... we gotta find that neckless" he was scared.

I couldn't wait any long, so I went over to her while she was folding clothes and stuff. I started off like this" ahh, so you do work here! Someone should of known better bout us"
*she blushes*

I went on with my opener from her. She was really nice when she responded.

My wing was... somewhat taking over the set. I let him because I wanted to see how things turned out. He doesnt know much about PUAin, and he dosent know how to open. Besides, he was talking to me and not her.

Well, I didn't see much IOI's. Other than the basics like "smile, laugh" and stuff like that. She had a hard time feeling comfortable, like she was nervois too. I did a test to see if she was comfortable with the ESP routine. Her hands wasnt sticking too well to mine... cuz she was all stiff.

She initiated some chats and she said my routines were really fun. She wanted more but she was soo stiff, mystery's attraction gambit failed...

She told me to go to a certain spot with her and talk there, since her boss told her to get back to work. I was like "hmm, she does wanna talk". So we got to know each other there.

next thing, my friend jumps in.. on a set I opened. He was just bein himself, I was doing alot of the talking. Untill i said "we have to roll ...we still gotta get your shoes." Haha, he elongated our stay and demonstrated some.. dlv unconsciously. I was like "oh well".

At some point, I did a little neg wit hthe whole "wiping lipstick off her cheek"

It went well anyways. I told her to do soemthing creative on a Hollister cologne card. She gave me her friendster.. which was not exactly what I expected. I put some dashes and said "hint hint, do something creative"

She dint catch the hint, so she drew flowers. Then i was like "iyte, we gotta go. Pleasure meeting you."



She never asked for our names. Grr.... that sucked. It was fun though. I don't know what would of happened if he didn't step in. I didn't mind tho, it was his b-day, he is my best friend, he doesn't know who to wing, and he doesn't know much about the game. Imma give him a break here.

My evaluation: I was overall.. disappointed that I didn't number close, didnt kiss closer, didn't build comfort enough, didnt do this and that. I dont exactly know what I missed, but I have an idea of what to work on. I sure wish it would of ended better. The worst part was... this was the only set I opened because my friend got us stuck on her.

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Now i need an evaluation from you guys... how well did I do? I dont think I succeeded as much as I hoped to for my first attempt.

Author:  JSmooth [ Mon Dec 10, 2007 7:05 pm ]
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Glad you posted some field reports. I was waiting to see how you would do. First of I want to say you did a great job of pulling yourself together and going after that waitress after the 3 second rule had expired. That's no easy task. Becoming a mPUA is about conquering and mastering your emotions, you are one step closer. I am glad that my advise helped you get further with the ladies also.

Now, the evaluation. You pegged it pretty good when you said you didn't kino escalate. I didn't see anything about that with the other lady in the retail store. You seem like you are getting your sets to hook with your openers, and they are responding well to your negs by giving you IOIs. Just sounds like you need to kino some more, and try for a move to get to the Comfort building phase.

Overall, nice job getting out there, and doing it! 8)

Author:  xvxv3ndetta [ Mon Dec 10, 2007 8:49 pm ]
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Thanks for your time.
I thought the 3 second rule was mroe about avoiding DLV hahaha.
I was able to manage like you said. I just have this nack for doing something daring, eventhough I've never done any risk-taking my entire life. personaly, I find it to be very entertaining and fullfiling.

In any case, I haven't approached much people. I'm picky and that... might be a problem. It's hard to feel modivated to do anything when I have no target.

Most of the people I'm around are highschoolers. My friend here vergil07 told me that PUA'ing works better with women ages 18+

I still need help with the comfort part. I can't do kino games if my target gets nervous and stiff >_<

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As for the retail store, I did a few kino. Personaly, I dont think I did any kino other than holding her hands for a lil bit. And, wiping a "lipstick smudge" off her face. It wasnt really there, but I had some reaction. Grr, i'm not used to it yet. It makes me nervous. But hey, I'm crazy enough to do it if I can remind myself.

Msot of the time, I leave steps out becasue I get caught up and simply forget what I'm suppose to do. I think its just a matter of experience.

Author:  JSmooth [ Mon Dec 10, 2007 10:52 pm ]
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I kept forgetting to kino for a while. Heck, sometimes I still forget. It's becoming more natural, but it comes with time. You start doing and saying things without thinking about it the more you sarge. It's like being Neo in the Matrix. At first you are limited by your mind. The more you are in the Matrix you see the code before it happens and work towards mastery.

Author:  xvxv3ndetta [ Tue Dec 11, 2007 1:35 am ]
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My BIGGEST goal at the moment is getting to the kiss close. Any idea how to reach that?

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