Hi.
Yesterday i did first approach in my life. I have a strong approach anxiety, but, i dont know how, yesterday i broke it. And, i didnt go to newbie mission before.
I go to concert, "nice" music - tables, chairs, no dancing or very loud music. It was a classic 2set. I used direct game opener - like "Hi, you two are very estetic, i must go and introduce myself". And it works
. Inside, i was half dead from shock. HB8 and HB7 - and i expect something like "go away" or "go die to the corner"... But, we chat like 10 minutes - smiles.... For me, this is like run to Mount Everest in 20 minutes - big surprise, and biggest achievment in my life, in social relationships.I end it after couple minutes - i dont know why
My mistakes:
I try "charm" both - right way is choose one target and choose strategy
Low eye contact - again, i try both - now, i know, this is mistake
Low conversation - i was too amazed just from talking to girls....
Next time:
- one target
- eye contact to target
- better conversation
- maybe some kino
